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Old 07-16-03   #1
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umm...i need some advice

I recently broke off a friendship with someone. I am really starting to miss her, but i feel that if i am friends with her again, everything will be the same. I'm not sure if anything will be the same, if i try to mend things since i was really mean about it.

I stopped being friends with her, because she started calling me dumb and stupid all the time...it really got me down. i know she didn't mean it, it was all in fun, but i started to believe her. I'm not dumb...i finally believe that. and she also used to hit me a lot in fun, but she took it out of hand, she hit me a bit harder than she meant to...and i didn't want to hit her back, she would only hit me harder. But i really do miss her, i think about her a lot, and sometimes it seems like i've made a huge mistake by doing that. What should i do?
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Yeah she meant it for starters. People don't talk to their friends like that, and they certainly don't hit them. Get some better friends.
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thanks for the advice syb...you seem to be the only one who cares around here
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Ya know, my mother used to hit me alot and tell me I was stupid. But it was all in fun, right?
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I get hit and told i'm stupid alot. Its fun.
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Stay away from this chick, nothing good will ever come of a relationship with her. Simple as that.
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i bet if you all knew who it was you'd change your mind, cause everyone here loves little beckah kitten...
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Stay away from this chick, nothing good will ever come of a relationship with her. Simple as that.
I agree. She ain't no good for you. I wouldn't have apologized for being mean about it either. If she couldn't tell that you were hurting, then she was never really your friend.
but that's just me.
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how'd you know i apologized for being mean about it?


thanks for your advice so far guys
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i bet if you all knew who it was you'd change your mind, cause everyone here loves little beckah kitten...

Doesn't make any difference to me who it is- if they aren't treating you right then they have no right to be respected with your friendship.
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HIT HER BACK!!!! If some one offers you violence you should respond in kind, just dont go to far.

you people may think Im a psychopath for saying that but over the years Ive found that , sadly, nothing gets the point across to the "cattle" like layin boots to somebody. Some poeple just cant be reasoned with U see.
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hmmm...the whole reason this thread was created was because i forgot my anti-depressants, so i was thinkin a lot...and i was all sad and lonely and stuff...so its kinda a pointless thread, but thanks for the advice everyone.

for the record: i am not talking to her again ever...so i won't be needing to hit her. I told her i don't wanna be friends with her...so i intend to keep it that way...i am a man of my word after all.
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she sounds like a dumbass, cut her off, face it people outgrow each other and change all the time... i dont retain any of my friends from highschool now save maybe 1, and he wasnt evena freidn in highschool i didnt really know him till college... people just change, thats all you need to know.
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Oh I feel like total asshole now!!! I did not know you were a guy

I IN NO WAY CAN TOLERATE VIOLENCE AGAINST A WOMAN!!!!
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hahaha, yeah...violence against women is bad, very bad
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I had a friend like that too. She would hit me and I hit her back then she started acting innocent about it. The violence stopped, but then one night we were argueing over coffee and she sucker punched me in the back of the head when we were leaving.

It's better to just get away now. You might want to help her. She probably gets in a lot of abusive relationships. It's not your problem. Just always agree, never say much and she'll get bored soon enough. She'll go on to victimize someone else. Probably one who likes to argue so she feels justified. Still it's not your problem. At least it shouldn't be.
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Re: umm...i need some advice

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I recently broke off a friendship with someone. I am really starting to miss her, but i feel that if i am friends with her again, everything will be the same. I'm not sure if anything will be the same, if i try to mend things since i was really mean about it.

I stopped being friends with her, because she started calling me dumb and stupid all the time...it really got me down. i know she didn't mean it, it was all in fun, but i started to believe her. I'm not dumb...i finally believe that. and she also used to hit me a lot in fun, but she took it out of hand, she hit me a bit harder than she meant to...and i didn't want to hit her back, she would only hit me harder. But i really do miss her, i think about her a lot, and sometimes it seems like i've made a huge mistake by doing that. What should i do?
if she comes back try and be her friend...because if that happens she was probabley just playin'.....but I hit my friends sometimes and once my friend eddie dissed icp so I grabbed his neck and punched his back and he got really pissed off and grabbed my arm and bruised it.I felt really bad he got PISSED off because I do act too violent sometimes with my friends.We are aight now but later on he told my I made his neck (just a lil part of it)green.... So she may just be a bit violent sometimes like me.
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I can be a lil abusive but seriously just playing around (after reading nmaries post i decided to clear some shit up)and I just play around but I do hit hard (so my bro gregg sayz)


hmm I try not to hit em....specially not eddie he got PISSED OFF!!!!
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You can get together and beat on eachother. The most annoying thing she did was act like she was too small to hurt someone. She knew damn well what she was doing.

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