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Old 03-17-03   #1
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"Just the way it is.."

Alright, it's my turn to express this inner animosity..

This matter has been straining me for far too long. This corrupted society we live in.. How recognition are being given to the people who lie, cheat, and decieve others - as being people better to "hang around with".

It's made me fair sick. What the HELL is wrong with trying your damndest to be a decent person?! I'll probably recieve replies, either stating that there is no definition of a good person, or "screw them". That people really do prefer the company of a nice, honest guy compared to the company of a "badboy" with an attitude. Bull. They claim one thing, yet mean another. If saying that makes me blind, or foolishly niave, then I'm unfortunately going to carry that curse with me.

I just... don't get it. We, as a society, advertise that trying to become a "good person" is essential in life. That it'll get you far. But in retrospect, how far does it ~really~ get you? I've felt exclusion on every level, because I'm not some idiot with a drug addiction, alcoholism, or some conforming drone without an identity.

I've seen people compared, by the most intelligent, sweet people I thought I knew. And the reply was, as to why this seriously pity-whoring, un-original, lying, egotistical individual was better than me?

"That's just the way it is."

Well don't that just beat all? I'm beggining to realize this streak in a lot of people I hold dear...

It's become destructive to myself. Ultimately, I must take responsibility for how I react to these things. It's my fault. But my main crime I'm responsible for, is overthinking things to an extreme extent. To over-analyze matters. Since I don't know anyone on this message board, I'm not directing any of this on you folks - I've no right be a judge. But from the opinions I've seen thus far, I can tell you're a unique, opinionated bunch. That's refreshing. That's just my assesment.

My question is: How do I atone? Bash my head in with a brick and hope to become ignorant?
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Re: "Just the way it is.."

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My question is: How do I atone?
Simple. Stop being Canadian!
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Old 03-17-03   #3
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lets face facts, nice guys are boring, they have no balls and are a general drain on peoples will when they want to do something fun and adreniline filled.
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or, you could smoke some weed, and get crazy, stop caring what other people think and do something fun with your life. confidence draws people close because people are generally insecure of themselves so they stick to people who are a beacon and a light and filled with confidence and courage that they dont possess.
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lets face facts, nice guys are boring, they have no balls and are a general drain on peoples will when they want to do something fun and adreniline filled.
One of the first things my boss told me when I used to sell jewelry was to not be a nice guy.

Nice guys get nowhere.
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But, but.. I wouldnt mind a nice guy..
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liar, you want a nice woman.
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Re: "Just the way it is.."

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Bash my head in with a brick and hope to become ignorant?
wait.. become?? what are you now?
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liar, you want a nice woman.
at the moment, I want a guy.
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then i take it you're on your stomach..
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Ignorant, am I? My friend, that's one thing I strive not to be. I'm not the most intelligent guy in the world - and it's obvious you aren't. But I highly doubt I'm as ignorant as you'd like to believe. And I'd dare you to point out an example of where I am.

As for "nice guys being boring", at least you're straight forward when you say that. Most people won't admit it. But personally, I aint' into weed, or any of that stuff; you have a right to be, that's your choice. I aint' got a problem with that, your business. It's for descrimination of people that aren't, which is my problem. But, that's just a random thought, and my opinion.
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Ignorant, am I? My friend, that's one thing I strive not to be. I'm not the most intelligent guy in the world - and it's obvious you aren't. But I highly doubt I'm as ignorant as you'd like to believe. And I'd dare you to point out an example of where I am.
ig·no·rant adj.

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you haven't figured out that you'll get no where in this life by handing out daisies to every moron you come into contact with. you think that by being genuinely nice, innocent and sweet, like a little girl, you'll be able to have the world feeding out of your hand. you're seriously uninformed and guess what? that's ignorant, dip shit.
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New's flash: I'm fully aware that society's a bitch. And I know you aren't handed things on a silver platter - you work for what you get. I'm damn sure of that. My rant, was on as to why the world has adopted these customs. As to why people discrimante certain things, while broadly accepting others - and as to why the media/society advertises proper behavior, yet in my opinion, contradicts itself. I was looking for opinions, not pity or sympathy. We all carry a degree of ignorance.

It's called open discussion - not something to be insulted by some moron, who has the impression that I'm a highly ignorant person based on my last post. If you carry that immediate judgement, then you my friend, are the ignorant one.
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oh, my bad. maybe we should exchange phone numbers and have long drawn out conversations on why society is such a hard thing for you to grasp and then segway into how nifty it was to be in the third grade where everyone liked you.

if it makes you feel any better, i'd pick you to be on my team during dodge ball.
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I swear to god if someone complains about "society's cruelty" one more time my foot is going to explode. Shut the fuck up.

A: Nice guys are all pansies, usually fat and meek with no ambition, pride, or self confidence. They like to whine about society.

B: Not-nice guys are encompassed entirely by college fratboys and everyone who listens to David Matthews. They get pussy because they're built and that's what their ultimate life goal is - getting pussy. Cry about it.

C: The fellows who fall into neither of these categories are the only ones that you should ever feel remorse for if you were to ever hit them with a car and kill them. They are most commonly referred to as "guys". They just happen to not be a wusscore faggot or a jock in the process.
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uh oh.. i think dead dreamer gave up. is 15 posts any type of record? shit, who's supposed to be keeping track of these things?
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Re: "Just the way it is.."

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Alright, it's my turn to express this inner animosity..

This matter has been straining me for far too long. This corrupted society we live in.. How recognition are being given to the people who lie, cheat, and decieve others - as being people better to "hang around with".

It's made me fair sick. What the HELL is wrong with trying your damndest to be a decent person?! I'll probably recieve replies, either stating that there is no definition of a good person, or "screw them". That people really do prefer the company of a nice, honest guy compared to the company of a "badboy" with an attitude. Bull. They claim one thing, yet mean another. If saying that makes me blind, or foolishly niave, then I'm unfortunately going to carry that curse with me.

I just... don't get it. We, as a society, advertise that trying to become a "good person" is essential in life. That it'll get you far. But in retrospect, how far does it ~really~ get you? I've felt exclusion on every level, because I'm not some idiot with a drug addiction, alcoholism, or some conforming drone without an identity.

I've seen people compared, by the most intelligent, sweet people I thought I knew. And the reply was, as to why this seriously pity-whoring, un-original, lying, egotistical individual was better than me?

"That's just the way it is."

Well don't that just beat all? I'm beggining to realize this streak in a lot of people I hold dear...

It's become destructive to myself. Ultimately, I must take responsibility for how I react to these things. It's my fault. But my main crime I'm responsible for, is overthinking things to an extreme extent. To over-analyze matters. Since I don't know anyone on this message board, I'm not directing any of this on you folks - I've no right be a judge. But from the opinions I've seen thus far, I can tell you're a unique, opinionated bunch. That's refreshing. That's just my assesment.

My question is: How do I atone? Bash my head in with a brick and hope to become ignorant?
You don't hate society; you just hate the fact that girls think you're a pussy.
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