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Old 04-28-02   #1
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I need some good advice

i need some good advice guys and gals. i have strong feelings for this guy but i don't know if i should tell him or let it go. he is a good friend of mine and i'm worried about ruining the friendship. so how should i approach this? PLEASE I REALLY NEED HELP IT IS TEARIN ME UP INSIDE!!!

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tell him, and take what ever comes of it. Honesty is never the wrong decision...trust me on this one.
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i wish it were that easy to just go out on a limb and tell him. but i guess that is what i'm gonna have to do.
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I only tell you this because I am living a life of deception right now...(hating it) and it is tearing me up. Honest from the beginning is the best...you will be far happirer for it.
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I must ask... if being honest with them hurts them... and you can not bring yourself to hurt them...
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I must ask... if being honest with them hurts them... and you can not bring yourself to hurt them...
that is kind what i'm worried about because i care soooo much for the guy i hate to see him when he is hurtin and i don't want to add to his already troubled life. i mean why add to that pain he already feels. so i'm stuck between feeling my pain and trying not to make more pain for him..... because i know our friendship means alot to him. which makes me happy, but i would be happier if i was by his side... sharing his pain.....i would be so willing to take allllll of his pain and make it mine just to be able to share more with him.... i would go to the ends of the earth to make his life happy so that he would smile more because he has a get smile when he does smile....*sigh* i truely love him. i really do.
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Am I the only one that's going to say anything???

You guys are fuckin' slackin'...

Did the Advice board just fail to catch your attention there, or what, dazey_pixie?
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Re: I need some good advice

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i need some good advice guys and gals. i have strong feelings for this guy but i don't know if i should tell him or let it go. he is a good friend of mine and i'm worried about ruining the friendship. so how should i approach this? PLEASE I REALLY NEED HELP IT IS TEARIN ME UP INSIDE!!!


Tell him or 20 years down the line you may look back on it as the biggest regret of your life.

What if he was the one?

What if just had said how I felt?

Why did i marry this loser I'm with now?

Why is my life hell now?

If only I had said something.....


Trust me if he's that good a friend even if he says no he will do evrything in his power not to lose you as a friend.

Wish for the world, and I hope you get it.
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well i believe that after sleeping on it for one more night. i believe i will tell him. we are good friends. so who knows it may just work. plus you are right i would kick myself if i never told him till it was too let. so now is a good time as any. thanks soooo much for your help.
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Well at being very late..you should, because I've went through that before....and it worked out pretty well....we even stayed pretty close after I fucked it up...er...yeah...(that's another story in itself), and he just might be the one..better you tell him now than never..because you just never know what might happen...cause yeah I still have very strong feelings for my friend...and he was actually someone who did alot more for me than anyone else I was ever with did...so yeah...you should because...there's the trust already...and i think the friendship could still stay intact..ok that's my useless ranting..sorry if i sound like a moron only trying to help..
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Well at being very late..you should, because I've went through that before....and it worked out pretty well....we even stayed pretty close after I fucked it up...er...yeah...(that's another story in itself), and he just might be the one..better you tell him now than never..because you just never know what might happen...cause yeah I still have very strong feelings for my friend...and he was actually someone who did alot more for me than anyone else I was ever with did...so yeah...you should because...there's the trust already...and i think the friendship could still stay intact..ok that's my useless ranting..sorry if i sound like a moron only trying to help..
No you didn't sound like a moron....it is good to hear that someone else has went through what i'm going through....i kind of told him...but it was online so i don't know what his reaction was to it....i'll see him in person soon i hope so we can really talk about it....but thanks for the advice...it is helpful.
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