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Old 04-29-03   #1
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A few days ago I was speaking with an old friend on the internet whom I haven't spoken to in about a year. We did theatre together for a year, and all the time I knew him he was all over my best friend, Courtney, and being an ass to me. So it astounded me when he said that during that summer he had feelings for me. I live in Oklahoma, but I'm going to go visit California next summer (He lives there), and he wants me to go out on a date with him. I don't know if I should let him down gently or tell him to take a hike. Please help.
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just say "sorry im not interested" those words explain it all. Use it in a stern but not a menacing voice and youll be fine.
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besides... its sounds like he was stuck in the "pull your ponytail" kind of flirtation way back when... while flattering, its not too mature, i would think...

smash his balls with your stillettos...
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i'll go with billy's suggestion...just be honest, if he's your friend...he'll understand.
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Because of he liked to act upon his hormonal instincts, my best friend kinda fell head over heels for him. I kinda like him, but I don't want to hurt her feelings because I know she still like him. Would it be so bad if I did go out with him?





















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looks like you already made your own mind up, why do you need us to justify it for you? if it were me? well it depends, if i saw my friend Courtney way more than i saw the man Dingleberry because of distance et al, i wouldnt risk a good friendship for one asshole, besides theres plenty of asshole men around find a better one, im pressed to believe that you can find a better one easily seeing how this one sounds kinda... *bites tounge*

But like i said you seem to have already made up your own mind, you dont need us to justify it for you, youre going to have to learn to live your life with no regrets, its too short to ALWAYS second guess yourself, but know this... when you leave Cali and go back home youre going to have to deal with your friend again and this asshole will be out of the picture until you can go back to see him again, you dont sound old enough to be making monthly trips to see him either or like you have enough money...either way YOU have to deal with the consequences either way.. you dont need us to tell you wether its right or wrong, because frankly i dont believe in right or wrong, only believe in point of view.
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I just want a second oppinion, to help me decide.
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Ok forget about what can go wrong, forget about having to tidy up the mess afterwards, forget about your friend.

Look at the problem clinically and without emotion.

Do you Want to see him?

You're the only one who canb decide this because you are the only one with all of the facts.

Remember, five minutes of happiness is worth five months of shit
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I'm not really sure. I know that I want to at least check him out to see if things can go furture.
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I kinda like him, but I don't want to hurt her feelings because I know she still like him.

I don't still like him! I swear!!
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oh great... another love triangle...
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Here's the absolute, straight up facts, bottom line. You are young. Statistics show that if you get into a relationship right now in your life, there is about a 98% chance that it will not last. Let's see, any kind of relation with one of your friends? Don't go on a date with him. He lives far away? That ups the percentage even more than any relationship you start with him will never work. And like rouge said, that was kinda like 'pull your pony tail' flirtation, which is a nice sign of immaturity, and that of a dumbass considering he did it at that age.

Bottom line, I would say don't date him. You're young, there's a few million other fish in the sea, and it won't last.
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either you go for it. or you dont. if youre in the neighbor hood then stop by. say hi. eat for lunch. not a date. and then leave.
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