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Old 07-06-02   #1
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problem with me?

this probably sounds really stupid and selfish but...

since 2 months ago i have lost about 20 pounds (mostly because of Wellbutrin and my taking advantage of it making my appetite very small). so yeah, 20 pounds are gone. its not like i was so skinny beforehand anyways, so im not sick and dying from underweightness. ( im 5' 5" and before i was 130...now im about 110) so 5' 5" and 110lbs is NOT underweight for somebody at my height.

but the point is that i have this girlfriend that CONSTANTLY complains about how skinny ive gotten, like it bothers her. it really irritates me because i have a very healthy attitude towards eating, but i just dont have a big appetite.
one day we were in a food court, and everyone had gotten pizza, but i wasnt so hungry so i got Nesquick instead. first she looks at me kind of like shes pissed and she just screams "WHY DONT YOU EAT SOMETHING FOR CHRIST SAKE?!?!??!?!?". she does this alot. random outbursts where she just yells at me about it.
also shes told people stupid things like "oh, she never eats, but she only does it for attention" and shes told people that im bulemic. it really bothered me.
ive sat down and talked to her about how im very healthy and that my body is very strong, despite the 20 pound loss. and its not even like it was overnight, or even that i tried to stop eating.

it just doesnt get through to her. i love her very much, so i dont want to just blow her off, but what she does really irritates me.

i noticed that she always tries to lose weight, but can never keep with it and just winds up eating more but...people have told me that shes just resentful that i lost weight effortlessly and she cant.

i dont want to think thats how it is. i dont know. what should i do?
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Tell her to shut the fuck up.
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I agree with red, and shes problie just jealous.
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Tell her to shut the fuck up.
Yup.

If you'v already tried talking to her, and she doesnt get it, then just dont deal with it anymore.
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She only does that because she is concerned for your health. I'm 5'6 and only 120 and I think I look sick thin. I guess its all on perspective.
other than that, she does need to shush up.

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yah, shew shouldnt worry so much but atleast she worries man.

i m 6'0'', 205 lbs, and husky, im built and i think i need to loose wieght because im only 15. it would be healthy but ppl bitch when i say i want to. i know ur point man. my girl bitches when i dont eat either. even though i tell her why. it ok man. she just cares i like that she cares for me. its a good thing.

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it's good that she is worried about you but she shouldn't say those things about you. try to talk to her again.
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Well, if she does not liste nto you, just tell her that you ll try to gain some weight. Do that to calm her down so she does not bother you anymore about the subject.
About your appetite...are you sure you are ok with it? I mean, have you consulted your doctor about it? Side effects of medicine are not a good thing.
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hmmm . i just want everyone to understand that i am a girl. cause it sounds like alot of people think im a guy... damn you all.

but thanks for the advice.
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