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Old 08-19-03   #1
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what to do when your ex comes back...

i have a dillema and wonder if you could please help me...

...see, i broke up with this girl about 4months ago in a really bad way, since then i've started going out with a new girl and we are really happy together. recently my ex contacted me and we have started talking on MSN quite a bit. despite several quite blatant hints that i'm not interested in her my ex has persisted in trying to get back together with me. i don't want to shatter her as i believe in trying to remain on good terms with people but i'm not sure how i can let her down without really upsetting her and once again ruining our friendship.
i know this probably all sounds quite pathetic but i don't feel that i can make a judgement on my own. please give me your opinion. thank you.
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If she is not taking your "hints", then you are going to have to have a flat out talk with her about it. Just tell her that you truley value your friendship with her, but that you too deeply care for you girlfriend to jepordize that. You might be streaching the truth, or buttering it up for her, but it will be better than her thinking you hate the sight of her. You should be as honest as possible, without being mean. As straight to the point as you can get, but with a soft touch. In times like this, there are really only two mistakes you can make: being cold/mean/heartless or worse, lead the girl on to think there is still a chance. Which, is also not fair to do to your new girlfriend. Honestey to both girls is best, but in a fair, nice way.
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if your ex comes back youbroke up for a reason.No reason to repeat history,now is their?Erm...My best bet is all breakups were meant to happen dat way...if your met for eachother love will find a way.....


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thanks all for your adivce, i will endeavour to follow it to the best of my abilities
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Sometimes, you have to think about yourself before others. This is one of those times.
Tell the girl to chill, or you'll stop talking to her for good. She'll either stop, or you'll stop talking to her. Either way, problem solved.
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My thoughts exactly.
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What to do when your ex comes back..?

put a knife to his throat and tell him to fuck off....



it really all depends on howyou feel about it.
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don't fall into that trap unless if you want it to be repeated. once when it repeats you. you are going to be hurting even worse. just say no. i'm sure that you will be fine.
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agreed. just say no. i had this happen with me. the answer is no. there are reasons you broke up, and i'm SURE that those reasons haven't been resolved in 4 months. it's been a little over 4 months since my last and i broke up. since then, i've gotten into a nice, quiet, stable, beautiful, amazing, and overall perfect relationship with another person. and the reasons for the breakup actually have been resolved. since then, though, many new reasons have cropped up, but not on my side. believe me, just say no. that's what i said. and it'll work out for the best. try to be nice though. just say, "listen, i know what you are saying, but consider different people before me. we had our reasons for the break-up, and those reasons remain. i don't want to hurt you, but what's done is done." smile at the results *laugh* j/k
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sometimes 3 years isn't enough to resolve them, for the most part...if they're like that..it's either tell em to fuck off, orjust quit talking to em....in a less blunt...mean way..
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i have a dillema and wonder if you could please help me...

...see, i broke up with this girl about 4months ago in a really bad way, since then i've started going out with a new girl and we are really happy together. recently my ex contacted me and we have started talking on MSN quite a bit. despite several quite blatant hints that i'm not interested in her my ex has persisted in trying to get back together with me. i don't want to shatter her as i believe in trying to remain on good terms with people but i'm not sure how i can let her down without really upsetting her and once again ruining our friendship.
i know this probably all sounds quite pathetic but i don't feel that i can make a judgement on my own. please give me your opinion. thank you.


Tell her to piss off, you're getting on with your life. That should be a good thing. And drunken advice is always the best to follow.
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Just say NO! It should be enough if your ex is that smart she's able to understand the word and the meaning of word NO.

If she's stupid just keep your doors locked and don't answer the phone if she calls and things like that...
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yeah if she callin u n shit an wont leave u alone dat harassment ...just be mean.
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