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Old 08-09-03   #1
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I figured this was the only appropriate place to put this. My grandpa just died lastnight. Its bad enough i'm depressed right now...but my fucking grandpa died...i'm trying to keep my mind off it.
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Old 08-09-03   #2
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Don't try to keep your mind off of it. It will only deliver you deeperr into depression becuase you will realize that all the effort to forget will only be a waste of time. Think about it, fill your mind with the feelings of sadness. If it makes you weep and you become debilitatingly sad, your ability to feel so strongly is proof that you are stronger than your depression.

For a long time i could not distinguish between my sadness and my depression. But when i realized that sadness is passionate, i could push away depression with it.

My official advice: Grab a friend, a close friend, a shoulder to cry on and talk their ear off about it.
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Old 08-09-03   #3
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good advice. don't shy away from people. this is a good time to surrouind yourself with loved ones. i know how it feels to lose someone that you love and though it is a bit of a cliche, its almost always true. time does heal most wounds.
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I'm sorry to hear that hun. Just remember that you need some time to yourself and time with others. don't try and avoid it, let it out.
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i know. cliche as it may sound. you will make it through this. i watched my father die in front of my face, i even think i caused it to happen. i wished for many night's, months, and going years now for it not to be true. pain is all you will feel, unless you remember the goodthings about him. remember the fun and the greatness. thats how i get by it al.
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so how are you dealing so far?
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there isnt anything you can do just let time heal you wounds be thankful that you knew them and that you had them here as long as they were alive
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i was almost in that spot when my dad had a heart attack. only it was worse for me because i didn't have anyone to talk to. i was always alone and i was drinking way too much and crying about it every single night. but once when he recovered from his heart attack. i felt releaved that i new he wasn't going to die. but i sure as hell thought he was. but i got over it once when he was ok. but since your grandpa didn't make the cut. its going to take a lot of time for you to heal. but you are strong and you can beat this. anyways good luck to you.
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