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We can not judge these people.... - 11-28-04

because their culture is different from ours, and all cultures are good and relevant. Value based judgements originate in ignorance and fear.

Female Genital Mutilation



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They're fucking savages, and any culture that practises this is inferior, and unworthy of continued existance.
  
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11-28-04

I`m opposed to any form of circumcision, especially when it is done without consent. I`d liek to see it removed from every culture it is practiced in.


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I`m opposed to any form of circumcision, especially when it is done without consent. I`d liek to see it removed from every culture it is practiced in.
I agree about male circumcision, but cutting a piece of skin off the penis doesn't really compare to removing the clitoris on a woman. The penis is still there, and still works even after circumcision.
  
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11-28-04

So does the vagina, but if you`re comparing death rates and amount of pain then female circumcision would still come out on top, yeah.


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11-28-04

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because their culture is different from ours, and all cultures are good and relevant. Value based judgements originate in ignorance and fear.

Female Genital Mutilation

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They're fucking savages, and any culture that practises this is inferior, and unworthy of continued existance.
Its a savage practice and any culture doing it should be stopped by punishing the offenders.


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11-28-04

Tut tut RedMeat, let's not just think about the basic biological functions.

Orgasms are still possible with a penis, but pretty damn difficult without a clit. (yes I know, not impossible, but who has that kind of time except the unemployed)

That's one hell of a life sentence.
I think the worst part is these are not babies who will live a scarred life, but one without the memory of pain. These girls, like the little chinese girls who had their feet bound, are usually horrifically aware of the pain all their lives, and that their mothers put them up for it.
I believe in religious and cultural freedom, but when it physically effects a person for the rest of their life, and they are not a consenting adult when it is done, there is no justification. Although, this is now recognised and against the law in many countries, but still goes on.



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Tut tut RedMeat, let's not just think about the basic biological functions.

Orgasms are still possible with a penis, but pretty damn difficult without a clit. (yes I know, not impossible, but who has that kind of time except the unemployed)
Meep.
I was going on the fact that removing the clitoral hood is also circumcision and not just the clitoris itself. Heh, even some women who have gone through the more extreme forms of genital mutilation debate against the idea that it harms their sex life. They're damned lucky if it didnt.


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11-28-04

Foot-binding raises an interesting parralel. So does the victorian wearing of corsets which could result in a woman's waist being reduced to mere inches in thickness. Foot-binding was practiced from around 975 AD to the 1900's. We are in a position where we can and should discourage this practice but I hardly think that it makes all the cultures that practice it "Unworthy of continued existence". That would be a lot of cultures, possibly including our own seeing as our culture is known to practice forms of extreme (Albeit medically sound) genital mutilation on hermaphrodites.


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Foot-binding raises an interesting parralel. So does the victorian wearing of corsets which could result in a woman's waist being reduced to mere inches in thickness. Foot-binding was practiced from around 975 AD to the 1900's. We are in a position where we can and should discourage this practice but I hardly think that it makes all the cultures that practice it "Unworthy of continued existence". That would be a lot of cultures, possibly including our own seeing as our culture is known to practice forms of extreme (Albeit medically sound) genital mutilation on hermaphrodites.
This is one of the most amazing examples of telling an apple that it's really an orange that I've ever seen.
  
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This is one of the most amazing examples of telling an apple that it's really an orange that I've ever seen.
I forgot about designer Vaginas. Virtually the same thing.


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Throughout history, human beings have imposed upon themselves all manner of expense and discomfort in the name of fashion. Whalebone corsets, Foot Binding, tattoos, piercings, and hot, powdered wigs, are but a few examples. Genital alterations themselves are certainly no recent invention either. Australian aborigines have been slicing the penis open longitudinally (modeling it on the venerable penis of the kangaroo) since time immemorial, and for at least two thousand years North African and various Arab-influenced cultures have been whacking the clits off little girls (Female Circumcision, calling it a “good custom”. Castration has been practiced, in various forms, over the millennia.
So why should anyone be surprised that women in Hollywood and Beverly Hills have moved beyond face lifts and breast implants to seeking out specialists in urology & plastic surgery to remodel their crotches into perfect replicas of those seen in Penthouse centerfolds? The only real difference between these new designer vaginas and more traditional "modifications" is technology and advertising. New surgical laser techniques developed to aid women with severely damaged pelvises (through car accidents, child birth trauma, and congenital deformity), have now become the ultra chic indulgence of women with more money than self-esteem.

The new trend began after women who’d had their "vaginal structures" surgically altered to prevent incontinence and the prolapse of their uterus and/or bladder (a condition which can result in these organs sliding out the woman’s vagina and dangling between her legs), discovered that sex was more enjoyable than it had been before the operation. Now billboards throughout LA LA Land (and Toronto) advertise that orgasmic bliss that can be yours (ladies only) if only you contact prestigious Doctor So-and-So for a private consultation. "You Won’t Believe How Good Sex Can Be!" one ad gushes. And apparently many of the patients offering testimonials agree -- they claim that their new tighter vaginas equal new, hotter, sex.

But not everyone is so ecstatic about this new twist on traditional vaginoplasty. To begin with, most doctors argue that the procedure puts women at risk for a loss of sensation in their genital region or even permanent scarring which could make intercourse painful, rather than more pleasurable. Add to this the usual risks of infection, plus the fact that with the area undergoing surgery so close to the rectum and bladder (and the nerves and muscles controlling it) the patient could end up needing diapers for the rest of her life. Naturally, one has to weigh risks against benefits. But considering that most patients of "designer vaginoplasty" are perfectly healthy, orgasmic women, it becomes obvious that greed and neurosis are the real ailments being addressed through the new procedure.

Of course, according to those offering the new love tuck, the operation is a godsend and they are the ministering angels. They seek only to help women reach their fullest sexual potential.

Yet ironically, according to that arch crusader for women’s sexuality, Betty Dodson, they are simply playing on women’s insecurities and reinforcing a harmful, outdated belief. Dodson’s chief gripe is that all this emphasis on tighter vaginas hinges on the assumption that a tighter vagina equals more genital friction during sex and that more genital friction equals more pleasure. (A view legitamized by Masters & Johnson decades ago.) What she says gets left out of this equation is the clitoris. Too many men, and even women, just don’t know what to do with the female clitoris. And this, she says, not vaginal relaxation is the cause of lousy sex.

In Dodson’s favor, sexual researchers since the 80’s have found that the more sexually aroused a woman is (by foreplay that emphasizes stimulating the clitoris), the more engorged her vulva and vagina becomes. That is, just like a man, a woman gets a "hard on". As she is aroused through prolonged manual and oral stimulation of the clitoris, more and more blood fills, or "engorges", her genital area – making her not only more deeply aroused, but also more easily aroused. That is, what felt good before now feels great. Fabulous. Insert penis, let the fun begin.

Unfortunately, full sexual engorgement can be undermined by a lot of things – from lousy foreplay stimulation to relationship problems to plain old exhaustion. No one thinks it odd that a man with three kids, a mortgage, mounting credit card debt, issues at work, and a lack of quality "alone time" with his wife might not be as horny (i.e. "hard") as he was as a newlywed. If he needs a little more coaxing to get in the mood and get it all the way up, so what – "How about some oral sex, honey?" But if his wife has the same trouble, for the same reasons, then one or both partners may assume there’s something "wrong" with her vagina – especially if she has borne children. (This despite the fact that the pressures on couples with young children create the classic recipe for sexual dysfunction.)

Indeed women with perfectly healthy, normal, and fully functional vaginas have sought out surgery for this very reason. In some cases because their husbands actually complained that sex wasn’t the same any more. Where a little more foreplay and some relationship counseling might have done the trick, instead there is costly surgery (prices start at $4,000) and an unbearable amount of pain. To quote one unfortunate patient, "Two kids I had without anesthesia and I can't even compare this pain. I was in bed for two weeks with constant sharp pain so bad I cried, and I had twinges of pain for over a month. I told everyone I had a hemorrhoid problem so they wouldn't ask why I was sitting on pillows.” Interestingly, this same patient says she’d do it all over again, believing it was what she had to do to save her marriage.

Many of those critical of designer vaginoplasty believe this is exactly what is on the minds of many of the Hollywood trophy wives seeking the operation, hence the emphasis on completely revamping their vulvas as well. Along with the shrinking of their love canals, they also ask for -- and get -- a nip-and-tuck for the labia minora, fat injection for the labia majora (for a rounded, unwrinkled look), and, if desired, a complete restoration of their long-absent Hymen.

The over-arching concern expressed by doctors and activists like Dodson, is that not only do these individual women run severe health risks in receiving the operation, but they say the attitudes of our society -- already skewed towards the veneration of teenage, virginal twats -- may become increasing warped in favor of unnaturally tight vaginas and look alike genitals, with more and more women feeling badly about what nature has bestowed upon them.

Meanwhile it may be worth reflecting upon the fact that in the Kama Sutra, the ancient love manual of India, it was taken as established fact that the genitals of women (and men) come in different sizes and that there are various erotic techniques to successfully navigate these differences. Furthermore, it was understood that with time and deepening familiarity -- as knowledge of each others bodies and individual turn-ons, coupled with love, increased -- a couple's sexual potential became greater.

All of which may partly explain why so many African cultures view the childbearing woman, not the teenage virgin, as the epitome of sexy and desirable. A fact which may be further explained by the physiological phenomenon whereby women who have born children also have more fully developed vaginas than do childless virgins -- making them capable of experiencing fuller engorgement and more pleasurable sensations. In fact, many sexologists have speculated that this phenomenon may make women who have born multiple children more capable of reaching orgasm through vaginal intercourse, than the skinny, pre-childbearing women that mainstream pornography celebrates.


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I forgot about designer Vaginas. Virtually the same thing.
Virtually the same thing, done by CHOICE, not by some bizarre sex ritual forced on the girl by the tribe
  
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In both cases women choose to do it in order to please the men of their "Tribe". It's not the men holding down their daughters and slicing away, it's the women doing it to make their daughters beautiful because of social norms. With young girls already getting breast implants I wonder how long it will be before they start asking for designer vaginas for a college gift?


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12-04-04

If any culture that practiced terrible things was unworthy of existence then I doubt that many of us would be in the clear. Feel very free to criticise female circumcision, Synikul, and I'm with you up to that point, but don't pretend that your own culture is so morally upright that you're in any position to say that another culture doesn't have the right to exist. Their culture is about more than female circumcision.


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Their culture is about more than female circumcision.
Yes, it's about much more than that. Like........

OH!! Subsistance farming! Scratching a bare existance from the land until a drought comes, and America sends them food. Uhhhh......

I'm not joking, I really have to stop and think about it.

Rape! That's it! Spreading AIDS to each other until Bush feels he has to send billions of dollars to Africa to help them out. Hmmmm.....

Establishing wildlife preserves, then poaching the elephants that live on them.

How could I forget? The Hutus and the Tutsis, who look alike to me. Hacking the neighboring tribe to pieces with machetes. Especially the kids, they cant run as fast.

Beating drums?

Here's another one! Taking over the political infrastructure of the country from the white minority, then running the country right back into third world status! An amazing acheivement!

Yes indeed, the cultural milestones that Africa acheives are just too numerous to list.
  
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12-04-04

Do I even need to mention the Spanish Inquisition, the holocuast, and the massacre of the American Indians? I agree that other cultures do things that are wrong and evil but like it or not they are still human in spite of it. Although I don't know why we even bother to try to explain this concept to you, you have thoroughly convinced yourself that these people are only capable of savagery because it's the only thing that you are willing to look at. The conditions that these people are forced to live are not exactly conductive to highly evolved expressions of social conduct either. Bombing them and starting conflicts over diamonds doesn't help their situation.


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