Did you win him/her over? Did you find out that you really disliked him/her? If you lost him/her what did you go through and for how long? were you too scared to meet that person? Can you ever stop loving someone you once loved?

I dont know why.. but I thought this might be interesting

I'd like to hear some if they dont mind

Oh shush up Syrus..It really ticks me off when people feel they have the right to make others feel like complete shit because of the way they feel..You don't like it, fuck off

so syrus.. why dont you start us off... whats ur story?

i agree wit goddess mean person!

yeah, i was in love.
he cheated on me.
I got upset.
I got over it
I joined this forum.

odd experience, that'll teach me to date a guy with what looks like pubic hair growing on his face...

It is true, some stories aren't so happy...

I fall in love all the time...sometimes harder than other times. I have exes five, six years back that I'm still attached to, I can never seem to let go...

Did you win him/her over?

No, twice now I let myself be won over. And one other thing... But I cannot call that one love... :anger:

Did you find out that you really disliked him/her?

No, in both cases I love the person more then anything. My first... She and I are still friends, but she chose another. A thing I must live with. My second... Sinistress... I do love her with all my heart. *smiles warmly*

If you lost him/her what did you go through and for how long?

The period was rather short, yet enough to send me into a state of emotional annihilation. To think as a computer... Logical, calculating, simple. It's a protection of self, I think if I continued to actually feel what I felt, I would have selfdestructed. In any event, it took not long before another did claim my heart. I'm still not really sure just how the hell it happened all of a sudden... Must be Sinistress' charms *smiles*.

were you too scared to meet that person?

I have not met her yet. Plans are there, however. Time... I am not really that scared. Anxious, perhaps. Nervous too. But I love her, is it not only just I should show her such, in her presence?

Can you ever stop loving someone you once loved?

Honestly? I do not think so. When someone was THAT close and the feelings were true, then there will always be something. Which can be a problem. But needs not be a problem. You can part as close friends, or part in hatred. But the hate is more then often a desire to not part at all...

I think nearly all of us have fallen in love or been caught up in love-related issues...
And hell, I'm in College, so I can tell you guys hundreds o stories...!

But me? I've (in my opinion) fallen in love twice...both with sad endings.
The first ended because I moved countries, which was heart breaking,
and the second ended because she liked some-one else...which I think was worse...

But I'm still friends with both of them; so it isn't that bad...

Yep, I've been in love and all that stuff. But I really hate it when I hear people saying things like "There is no such thing as love" and "Love is all a bunch of crap" etc, etc. That stuff pisses me off.

I liked someone.. spent 2 years ignoring those feelings cuz I knew that I could not fulfill anything that might be expected of me due to current circumstances and I didnt want to hurt anyone...

Then that person was about to move away.. and I was like.. I need to talk more.. I needed to be with that person more.. .. A great desperation got a hold of me.. I knew I had to do something only to find that it was too late... and then I lost that person.. and now I live with regret... possibly for a very long time..

I've loved once. She went with someone else; with hindsight, I believe I was more in love with love than I was with she.

I'm in an icky situation currently, where I'm "in strong like" with someone. I haven't allowed myself to love, because we aren't together, and I know the pain that would be ahead of me.

We seem to have nothing alike at first glance, but that didn't keep us from "clicking" one day early this past January. We actually got to know each other, and found out how alike we truly were.

No woman has ever kept my interest for this long (longest previous infatuation 1.5 months or so), and I sometimes decide that I hate my weakness, and try to stop liking her... that decision lasts until our next conversation, when she unknowingly controls me again.

I often quickly lose inerest in men also...I need mental stimulation, and I find most people are unable to keep me fascinated...it goes beyond men, to all people...however when I do find someone who fascinates me, I keep them around...I have friends that I have had for over ten years...it takes alot for me to trust also...I have only two ex-boyfriends that I still associate with, they were mutual separations...

I don't find this to be too philosophical

Love is a very tainted emotion. Of all that I can think, this is the only one that can cause you extreme happiness or torturous pain. No other emotion that I can think of has such a wide range.

I have loved before, and I love still. Before my love was just a masked lust, and now I am unsure of the love. I have won a girl over before, only to grow tired of her. I find that love can be very selfish. Once you are done, you don't care about the other. I have suffered from that. I hate myself for doing that. But I go on.

I love again but this time it will stay an unrequited love. At least from the way things go. I try to move on, I have tried to forget many times. But things happen and the feelings come back. I push them away only to be tackled by them later on. This is partly the others fault. Bringing up things that I don't want to her. Thing's I shouldn't here in my condition. Like "I Love You". Only this is the "I Love You" of a friend, and not a lover. but a heart in lvoe doesn't know the difference.

I truely hate love at sometimes, and can't be without it at others. Such a fickle emotion.

In the past, i was too young to know what love is. It was infatuation, seeing as how, with all my past GF's, we never knew eachother from the inside. we just looked like a good couple. oh sure, we would say " i love you", but we were just kids. I like to think that i have fallen in deep love with one person. My goddess. we plan on living with eachother at the close of this school year,and im never going to let her go.So, i am in love right now.

yeah but not all beards are black and curly and foul smelling