Their genetic makeup,hormones, appearance,sexual organs, a few personality traits/interests/skills might show up more in one than the other that kinda thing.

You hit it on the head with the first two things.

Besides the obvious thing of the body, it is the chemical thing that makes the biggest difference between men and women.

Men have testostorone and women have estregene, this is why we act different.
Its why drunks act like they do, and potheads act like they do.
Chemicals play a huge factor in life.

This chemical difference is why we(men) are the aggressor and women are the passive ones.
We were designed to go after them, thats why you almost never see a women ask a guy out.

If you don't use porn your chemistry level grows, making a need for a women to grow. This will give you desire and courage to take chances.
God told me that women are like anything else you have to really want it, like a touchdown in a football game.

So you perpetute the ideal of women as an object because you imagine that your god told it was meant to be that way? . . . Lovely.
That's the exact attitude that Christian's have used to oppress others around the globe and throughout history. They can look upon others as being inferior because they "Do not know God."
Making it ok to do what they want to them, because "God" said it was ok.
I'm gald you people can't do that to us now.

Ya mean like taking a chance that you wont get caught raping a girl?
Women are more the agressive ones its just more of a passive agression thing than the direct aggression men tend to focus on but yeah I see the point on the bit.Yeah they mostly want to be chased add itno the mix sexual harassment laws and "playing hard to get" and its all overly complicated.

I think you are just joking on the sexual harassment thing, but if a girl gets offended that you ask her out then thats her problem.
Women are really flattered that anyone asks them out, especially if they do it with matureity.

What God told me was this, if you really like a girl just ask her out over and over.
If she says she is not interested in you at all, then you stop asking.
When asking ask for a specific date, like a play or something of interest.
Just flat out ask with calm emotions while looking her in the eye, and keeping your body movement to a minimum.
You don't have to build up a "moment" before asking either, just introduce yourself(if you haven't yet) and ask.
She might say no, or say she has plans, or she might say yes.
But if you don't succeed think of some other plans and ask again at another time.

I asked this one girl I really like (pastors daughter....ouch) four times. But the first three times she had plans, but honestly I was so nervous that I just ruined the moment.
The first time, I thought I was going to pass out.
Now the fourth time, I asked her out in front of a small crowd.
She was going to say yes, but I ruined it at the end when I realized she was going to say yes.
When she asked me what time, I got nervous and said anytime.
She then told me she was busy that week. Man I was so close, Ill get her thou.
Anyone have any chloroform?

I don't look down on anyone, just because I have this knowlegde.
I didn't come across it untill I was 21.

this is as full of crap as you are...neither my hubby or I ignore eachother...and we are very..satisfied with eachother...i'm not a prostitue...and well rape...he's never raped anyone...and neither have I...rape is about power...not porn...so post your proof from experts...until than...i'll put as much faith in this statement as the bible...

and after the path this thread went down it looks like "your god" has made you a sexist, chauvinist who values women little more than...a touchdown...and thinks of them less than a person...but your religion has always been good at that...

A satisfied life and a rich life are two different things.

How long have you been married?
Where did I say you were a prostitute?
How do you know what rape is about?

Listen to Focus on the Family, it is a Christian radio show that often talks about pornagraphy. Dr. Dobson the show host was once on a team that went after rapists, child molestors, and serial killers, and in every case they found pornography was apart of there life style.

Where did I say that women are no more valuable than a TD?
Where did I say that women are "less than a person"?

is she one of those psychologists that you profess no belief in????

somewhere you said TheLight that psychologists were full of shit. hmm well since i think your full of shit that pretty much puts you in the same boat as them.

In most cases, these troubled individuals are raised by an extremely strict parent, or parents. There is often a strongly religious element. As children, they are taught to see sex and sexual feelings as sinful. This leads to problems in later life.

It is always extreme behaviour that creates problems. Pornography is not a bad thing, in itself. Nor is being religious.

What the fuck hole have you been living in....????

Women can be FAR more agrressive than guys.... believe me I was married once... I KNOW THIS from experience...... you really are a chauvinist pig... do you know that??? you probably do not even realize that you are..... men like you rarely do......

this is the type of guy that puts relations between men and women back 2000 years. no wonder he hasn't got anyone yet.

well this is the answer to your last two questions...and the path the rest of this thread went down...and it seems dy and crypt covered the rest

oh I have quite a rich life to...physically, emotionally and financially...we're going on two years...and you said porn leads to prostitution...that's why I said I wasn't a prostitute...I just have fantasies about it...but that has nothing to do with the porn I enjoy...and just because low lifes like that use porn, doesn't mean it made them that way...just easier to get a hold of than actual people...rapists...often have issue dealing with women...and rape is the only way they can deal with it....by the dominance factor...making them pay...child molesters...I have no idea what triggers them, but they have child porn usually...and nothing is healthy about that...and serial killers are often the result of a bad home life...and they do their killings in an effort to kill something they hate about life...and are usually known to exhibit a lack of empathy with death in childhood by torturing small animals and such...so once again even the "christian experts" have no idea what they are talking about either...

Did you ask your wife to marry you? She might have hinted that she wanted to, but you did the asking.
Did you ask her out on a date?

A angery women would do alot of attacking it speaks of it in the bible saying that its better to live in the attic than to live in a large house with a brutish women.

Tell me something, why was she so angry?
Why are you divorced?
Tell me what you mean by being agressive?

I meant that guys can be lead into useing prostitutes, not that women will become one.
The main reason a women would become a prostitute is for money.

You are only married for 2 years so your still young at it, but in time he might grow more fond of the material instead of you.
Its like smoking, it doesn't show any real side effects untill later on in life.

Now you called sexual preditors "low lifes" but in fact they are just humans who made some bad decisions, and or there parents or friends and family did some bad things to them also.
What ever you sow you reap, thats a fact of life.
You can't expect to live a HEALTHY life and abuse smoking cigerettes everyday. This doesn't mean you won't live to be ninety but you won't be no where near as strong.

Look at Ted Bundy he was a lawyer and look what he did, he wasn't born a monster he just became one through choices.

No she asked me...... and nope.... she approached me and asked me to go to a club with her.....

None of your business why she was angry..... nor why we were divorced.....
as for aggressive..... I mean exactly what the word means.... do you need a dictionary again????

And what exactly do you know about marriage??? have you ever been married??? do you know what is involved in keeping a marriage alive and working>????

Nope i did not think so... go crawl back into tha