okay, so an aquaintence of mine (that moved away almost a year ago) shows up at lunch... basically, the conversation goes "oh, im back for a few weeks, god im so bitchy cause i haven't had sex since i left"

immediately, that puts me on guard... granted, there are people who are more frank with their sex lives and whatnot...

but she's complainin' and im trying to be sympathetic... she the proceeds to show me her thong (not like she pulled up her skirt or anything, just that she showed the thin band around her waist that can only belong to a g-string).

so i ask, 'well where's your bf'

'down the hall'

'so why are you sitting here?'

'cause im on vacation'

'no, why are you sitting here all sexed up with your bf down the hall when you could be off with him rocking your socks?'

'cause im on the rag'

'then why get all sexed up'

'cause im horny'

'...'

'so let me get this straight... you're sitting here, after not having slept with yer guy for 9 months (i didn't tell her that he's been spotted with many, many, many young goth chicas on his hip), all sexxored up, seemingly raring to go... but you won't cause yer on the rag?'

'yeah'

'what's the point then?'

'i don't understand'

'nevermind'

*i then have to go back to work*



weird... just weird...

...you made about as much sense as her there...

i thought it was fairly simple... she's acting all sexy, she's feeling all sexy, she's all but proclaiming herself to be wet and raring to go... but is dead set against any sort of sexual activity.

contradiction.

...well it was sort of out of her hands at the time

no it isn't... she can make the choice to get messy if she wants to.

yeah, and you can choose to shit your pants instead of going to the bathroom....I'm confused....

as far as i know (unless the studies we read in psych/soci 299 were wrong) the only thing that precludes sexual activity during a period is aesthetics.

granted, studies also show that women are less horny during menstration and more horny during ovulation, if the girl was as needy as she indicated in the converstion, if she REALLY wanted it, she could have overcome the cultural aesthetics surrounding avoiding sex during menstration and gotten it.

but if she couldn't (get over her aesthetics) then there was no reason to dress all sexy get herself worked into a frenzy and the complain about it.



whatever, really... i've had a gf who didn't speak to me when she was on the rag and i've had a gf who got so worked up one night she excused herself to remove her tampon (she didn't tell me till after) and pounced me.

but lets throw it open to the floor, shall we...

ladies (preferably non-virgins)... what's your take on the issues at hand?

gentlemen (with out lesser opinion since we're not the ones bleeding for three days)?

my last girlfriend demanded to be fucked on the rag. she wasn't much of a bleeder and her period only lasted for 3 days at max.

Well, By the post you made, i would say she wanted you to do her there and then.. Cause her bj... err... bf wouldn't cause he might have to get cleaned up more than normally..
*smacks you upside your head three stooges style*
Her bf wouldn't, so you were there and could have..

or: (from her point of view) Lookies, a male with a penis! And he isn't infected!!
Lets see if he'll take the hint..

for some reason, i doubt that...

Perhaps it has something to do with the exact definition of "aquaintence", hu?
I know some girls I would such a fovour and I know some...well, nevermind.

Three days? It's usually a lot longer than that for most women.

I agree with your female friend. I find myself hornier than ever when I'm on my period but simply refuse to do anything about it. The reason I want it so bad is because I know that I can't fuck anyone for the entire duration of the bloody curse, that makes it "forbidden" therefore making me want it more. Yes, we are ready and wanting it badly but I don't exactly enjoy the thought of my blood, and chunks of my uterus coming into contact with my man's penis.

It sounds less romantical when you explain it that way

Aw, sorry.....did I ruin bloody sex for you? *pats you on the back*

HEAR! HEAR! I agree. the whole horny while having your period is by far the cruelest joke of mother nature. Generally I am longer than three days and the second and third are completely off limits as far as sex goes - looking like a crime scene is not my idea of finishing well. Never mind the fact that the sex usually isn't the best because there's no oral and the last thing you'd want to do is contract any of your abdominal muscles......the last couple of days are a definite possibility though.

And BTW, what your "friend" was doing is called flirting. You probably could have offered to take one for the team!

Plenty of people sex each other up when she is bleeding
just wear a condom sheesh.

since its different for everybody, some bleed 3 days....some bleed as much as 7. im in the 5 day category. it sux for me cos im all horny and cant have proper sex but i have other options

as for her, shes a fool, if she wants some she needs to learn to like anal or suck up her pride and go get layed.

edit: if youd rather suffer and wait till the curse ends, thats on you. as for me? id rather not be intimate the second or third days...specifically due to cramps and how much of a turn off that is. but besides those 2 days, its all good.

Well, I think I can handle it. I'm a big boy after all.

I must be a new age kinda guy because I seriously have no problem with either having sex or giving a woman oral anytime of the month...



...whooopeee doo it gets messy, aslong as she wants it and it ain't causing her (bad) pain then what's the big deal??? Sheets can go in the wash, and hello people ever heard of having sex in the shower? Try it, it makes the whole thing sexy and much easier to deal with.

If anyone wants to try, I'll be in my study...