Darkforum.com - Dark Stories, Dark Art, Poetry, Photography, Debates and Discussions
Home Register FAQ
Go Back   Darkforum.com - Dark Stories, Dark Art, Poetry, Photography, Debates and Discussions > Discussions > Serious Discussion
Reload this Page Comfort
Serious Discussion Discuss Comfort in the Discussions forums; I wonder if anyone agrees with this, its my logic. I firmly belive the only way to feel comfort is to feel discomfort first. Lets say you sleep on a ...

Register and remove some of the ads
Reply
 
LinkBack Thread Tools Display Modes
  (#1) Old
Arkantis is Offline
Happiness.
Arkantis is an unknown quantity at this point
 
Arkantis's Avatar
 
Posts: 1,208
Gallery: 0
Comments: 0
Join Date: Mar 2004
Location: Minnesota.
Zodiac Sign: Pisces
Rating: Not Rated
Credits: 27,335
   
Comfort - 03-09-04

I wonder if anyone agrees with this, its my logic.
I firmly belive the only way to feel comfort is to feel discomfort first.
Lets say you sleep on a bed every night, slowly you will grow to not appreachate your bed. My awnser to this is I sleep on the floor, One night a month I sleep on my bed and man it feels good. Comfort is nothing if you live in it constantly.
Does anyone agree/disagree with this.
  
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!Reddit!
Reply With Quote
  (#2) Old
errantrogue is Offline
which one, though?
errantrogue is on a distinguished road
 
errantrogue's Avatar
 
Posts: 20,202
Gallery: 0
Comments: 0
Join Date: May 2001
Location: The Mesa... pondering redemption
Rating: Not Rated
Credits: 288,983
   
03-09-04

i do... cause there's next to nothing better than crawling into my warm bed after a long day. so much so that i never wish to leave it.


___Nick_the_Rogue___

To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
"But this is America, where we unapologetically bastardize other countries' cultures in a gross quest for moral and military supremacy." L.G.
  
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!Reddit!
Reply With Quote
  (#3) Old
Arkantis is Offline
Happiness.
Arkantis is an unknown quantity at this point
 
Arkantis's Avatar
 
Posts: 1,208
Gallery: 0
Comments: 0
Join Date: Mar 2004
Location: Minnesota.
Zodiac Sign: Pisces
Rating: Not Rated
Credits: 27,335
   
03-09-04

Soo true, problem is you almost always have to leave it.
  
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!Reddit!
Reply With Quote
  (#4) Old
lazaruscorporat is Offline
corporate whore
lazaruscorporat is on a distinguished road
 
lazaruscorporat's Avatar
 
Posts: 933
Gallery: 0
Comments: 0
Join Date: Dec 2001
Location: UK
Zodiac Sign: Aquarius
Rating: Not Rated
Credits: 42,799
   
03-09-04

I can understand why you could argue that to be able to appreciate comfort, you would have to appreciate discomfort once in order to have a reference point.

However, I've slept on enough floors and gutters in the past to be quite aware of how uncomfortable they are. I don't need to do it anymore.

I'd analyse yourself further for any masocistic tendencies in this behaviour if I were you.



To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.

To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
  
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!Reddit!
Reply With Quote
  (#5) Old
Arkantis is Offline
Happiness.
Arkantis is an unknown quantity at this point
 
Arkantis's Avatar
 
Posts: 1,208
Gallery: 0
Comments: 0
Join Date: Mar 2004
Location: Minnesota.
Zodiac Sign: Pisces
Rating: Not Rated
Credits: 27,335
   
03-09-04

masocistic, what does this word mean?
I looked at www.dictionary.com and i also looked in my 2 household dictionarys it wasnt listed.
  
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!Reddit!
Reply With Quote
  (#6) Old
Dyshade is Offline
Caffeine King
Forum Leader
Dyshade will become famous soon enoughDyshade will become famous soon enough
 
Dyshade's Avatar
 
Posts: 20,825
Gallery: 0
Comments: 0
Join Date: Oct 2000
Location: Whispers
Zodiac Sign: Capricorn
Rating: Not Rated
Credits: 746,013
   
03-09-04

Masochistic.... coined after a certain English gentleman named Richard Masoch..... look it up as it is truly spelled



To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
S.O.D.
To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.

To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
Drink More Coffee!!!!!
  
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!Reddit!
Reply With Quote
  (#7) Old
Arkantis is Offline
Happiness.
Arkantis is an unknown quantity at this point
 
Arkantis's Avatar
 
Posts: 1,208
Gallery: 0
Comments: 0
Join Date: Mar 2004
Location: Minnesota.
Zodiac Sign: Pisces
Rating: Not Rated
Credits: 27,335
   
03-09-04

No here is what i got!
No entry found for Masoch.
Did you mean Maso ch?

Suggestions:
Mas och
Mas-och
Maso ch
Maso-ch
Msch
Maoch
Masoc
Msache
Mastich
Mesarch
Mausoc
Mssoc
Mach
Mash
Maso
Msoh
Asch
Masc
Msoc
Maslach
Masorah
Mzsh

For better results, try our search tips.
  
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!Reddit!
Reply With Quote
  (#8) Old
Dyshade is Offline
Caffeine King
Forum Leader
Dyshade will become famous soon enoughDyshade will become famous soon enough
 
Dyshade's Avatar
 
Posts: 20,825
Gallery: 0
Comments: 0
Join Date: Oct 2000
Location: Whispers
Zodiac Sign: Capricorn
Rating: Not Rated
Credits: 746,013
   
03-09-04

mas·och·ism
Pronunciation: 'ma-s&-"ki-z&m, 'ma-z&- also 'mA-
Function: noun
Etymology: International Scientific Vocabulary, from Leopold von Sacher-Masoch died 1895 German novelist
1 : a sexual perversion characterized by pleasure in being subjected to pain or humiliation especially by a love object -- compare SADISM
2 : pleasure in being abused or dominated : a taste for suffering

bah i got his name fucked up... not Richard masoch....

Richard was the psychiatrist who coined the term... bleh here----

SACHER-MASOCH, LEOPOLD RITTER VON
Leopold Ritter von Sacher-Masoch (1836-1895) was an Austrian novelist, from whose name the term "masochism" was derived by the psychiatrist Richard von Krafft-Ebing. He was born in Lemberg, Galicia, on January 1, 1836. His father, who had recently been created a chevalier by Emperor Francis I, was chief of police of Lemberg. His mother was a Polish aristocrat. His paternal aunt, who lived with the family during his childhood, was the Countess Zenobia. Sacher-Masoch adored her and was enraptured by the beatings she gave him. It was to these experiences that his later fascination with being dominated by women was attributed.

In 1848, his family moved to Prague. He attended school there, receiving excellent reports and winning a prize for his school leaving essay. Although he was interested in writing and the theater, his father wished him to study law. Sacher-Masoch entered the University of Prague, transferring to the university at Graz and receiving the degree of doctor of law in 1855. He began teaching history at the university the following year. His first published work, which appeared in 1857, was a study of the rebellion in Ghent. It was not well received by historians, being criticized as too novelistic.

In 1861, he became enamored of Anna von Kottowitz, the wife of a physician, who was ten years his senior. She eventually left her husband and children and moved in with him. Their relationship developed into a sadomasochistic one; Anna dominated him, with his encouragement, beating him with her fists and also using whips and birches.

Sacher-Masoch's next significant liaison was with Fanny Pistor. The two of them signed a contract, which stated, in part:

Herr Leopold von Sacher-Masoch gives his word of honour to Frau Pistor to become her slave and to comply unreservedly, for six months, with every one of her desires and commands.... The mistress (Fanny Pistor) has the right to punish her slave (Leopold von Sacher-Masoch) in any way she thinks fit for all errors, carelessness or crimes of lese-majeste on his part.
After a long and impassioned courtship with a mysterious woman who called herself "Wanda von Dunayev" after the heroine in his novel Venus im Pelz, Sacher-Masoch married her in a private ceremony in 1872. The woman, whose real name was Aurora Rumelin, and he eventually formally married.
During his marriage, Sacher-Masoch's masochistic tendencies continued to develop. His wife beat him with a cat-o'-nine-tails studded with nails. At his urging, she took lovers, while he also occasionally sought out women who might be convinced to dominate him. Eventually, he left her for Hulda Meister, whom he had hired as his chief translator for a magazine he was publishing.

By the time he was in his late 50s, Sacher-Masoch's mental health had begun to deteriorate. By March 1895, his condition had worsened so much that he was becoming violent and suffering delusions. Finally, on March 9, 1895, he was discreetly removed to the asylum for the insane in Mannheim. The public was told that he had died, and flattering obituaries were written about him. These accounts indicated that Sacher-Masoch died in Lindheim, Hesse, on March 3, 1895. Cleugh, however, claims that he actually died in the asylum in Mannheim in 1905.

Sacher-Masoch's novels were realistic and gained a devoted following. Some of his works, such as Venus im Pelz (Venus in Furs, 1870), depict people deriving sexual pleasure from suffering pain and humiliation. Among his other writings are Das Vermachtnis Kains (The Legacy of Cain), which appeared in four volumes from 1870 to 1877; Falscher Hemelion (False Ermine, 187; Die Messalinen Wiens (The Messalinas of Vienna, 1874); and Die Schlange im Paradies {The Snake in Paradise, 1890).

There you go



To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
S.O.D.
To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.

To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
Drink More Coffee!!!!!
  
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!Reddit!
Reply With Quote
  (#9) Old
Arkantis is Offline
Happiness.
Arkantis is an unknown quantity at this point
 
Arkantis's Avatar
 
Posts: 1,208
Gallery: 0
Comments: 0
Join Date: Mar 2004
Location: Minnesota.
Zodiac Sign: Pisces
Rating: Not Rated
Credits: 27,335
   
03-09-04

I don’t have these problems I just said you couldn’t fully enjoy something until you know how much of a blessing it is. I realize how large my blessings are by refraining from them at times.
I think this is far from the problems that this guy had, I mean I don’t like getting beat.
  
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!Reddit!
Reply With Quote
  (#10) Old
Kendra is Offline
Registered User
Kendra will become famous soon enough
 
Kendra's Avatar
 
Posts: 27,496
Gallery: 0
Comments: 5
Join Date: Dec 2002
Rating: Not Rated
Credits: 660,115
   
03-10-04

Yeah I agree. But kind of disagree.


I feel confort all the time. But I don't get tired for feeling comfort all the time. Sometimes I will go off and on. Some days I do feel the confort and most days I don't feel the confort. It all depends with what your doing on your day. If you do alot to get your self tired. You will have a good night of sleep. If you don't do much for your day. You won't feel the comfort at all.

It also has to do with what kind of a bed you have. If you have a nice bed to sleep on you'll feel the comfort. If you don't have a nice then you feel alot of comfort. As for me I have a bed that is as small as a couch. Most days I don't feel the comfort of the bed that I have. Because I don't do anything with my day. But since i'm starting to get my self out there. I'm starting to feel the comfort from the small bed I have.

The reason why I wanted to have a small bed is because. I wanted to have extra space in my room so I could move around and walk in my room. I hope I made sence.
  
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!Reddit!
Reply With Quote
  (#11) Old
lazaruscorporat is Offline
corporate whore
lazaruscorporat is on a distinguished road
 
lazaruscorporat's Avatar
 
Posts: 933
Gallery: 0
Comments: 0
Join Date: Dec 2001
Location: UK
Zodiac Sign: Aquarius
Rating: Not Rated
Credits: 42,799
   
03-10-04

When I said that there might be a masochistic (spelt it right this time) element, I wasn't implying that you wanted to be whipped by a dominant woman.

However deliberately putting yourself in a state of discomfort - purely for the physical sensation of discomfort - did lead me to wonder what the underlying motivation was.



To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.

To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
  
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!Reddit!
Reply With Quote
  (#12) Old
Arkantis is Offline
Happiness.
Arkantis is an unknown quantity at this point
 
Arkantis's Avatar
 
Posts: 1,208
Gallery: 0
Comments: 0
Join Date: Mar 2004
Location: Minnesota.
Zodiac Sign: Pisces
Rating: Not Rated
Credits: 27,335
   
03-10-04

Yea that made sense I guess.
  
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!Reddit!
Reply With Quote
Reply


Thread Tools
Display Modes

Posting Rules

Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off
Trackbacks are On
Pingbacks are On
Refbacks are On


Galleries
Toggle Newest Thumbs
me
me
me
My Pooch, Rusty
My Pooch, Rusty
My Pooch, Rusty
My new car
RPG
Got Nades?
For Tiggs

Powered by vBadvanced CMPS v3.0 RC2


Powered by vBulletin® Version 3.6.8
Copyright ©2000 - 2008, Jelsoft Enterprises Ltd.
LinkBacks Enabled by vBSEO 3.1.0
vBulletin Skin developed by: vBStyles.com

© 2006 - 2008 Dark Forum | About Dark Forum | Legal | A member of the Crowdgather Forum Community


1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25