It's over-rated if you ask me.

It seems to do more damage than good.

i guess that depends on who you're asking.

True, but what else do we have to live for? Love? Psh... sissy pansy BULLSHIT.

Well, noticing it does more damage than good it a start.



Did you know that Men having sex more than ten times with different partners makes them a sex fiend? For women it is only two different partners.



Sex does more physical damage to a women too. More importantly when a woman starts dating a man she tends to hang-out with most of his friends and loses touch with her own friends. Sometimes gives up other things like work and school to be "Devoted."



Really, it isn't the sex, so much as the situation around sex. Even down to the matter that if you don't get married, everyone just thinks she's available and if you have sex with one of their friends to hang-out still, you are a whore.

The whole system is too screwed up. Might as well not date or have sex with anyone, because it's too dangerous.

Love .. or sex? and I have to choose one?

You ever thought you may be doing it wrong?

somebody isnt up on her masters and johnson...

*snickers*

you also express love by having sex with your partner

spoken like a true virgin...

Tentacledead: Yes, indeed i have considered that i may be doing it wrong. I wasn't, but that was a good thought.

I was mostly talking about the emotional affect moreso than the physical pleasure. I hear most women don't get orgasms during sex anyway. Sex fucks up your mind, though. Ironic.

If you look beyond the sex and see it as connecting with someone, then it truly is a beautiful experience. Until it gets ripped away of course.. bloody hell. Cheers. *raises glass*

~checks out thread~
Hmm, ~thinks~ ~thinks somemore~,~thinks yet more~
Ah, screw it.. no opinion at this time...

Well thanx Darktiggr! Nice of you to post without leaving any valid opinion..what a moron would you have to be to do that?.......

maybe youre gay. and you need to munch some chicks beaver instead, maybe that will get you off...but i dont buy into the women dont get orgasms thing.. its all in knowing where the sweet spots are. i mean ive been with my woman a while now, well not THAT long but for me its been LONG and i got her down now to where i can get her off in under 5 minutes , because i know where her sweet spots are.

The best way for a girl to get her "O" from my experience is to STOP expecting it, and relax.

True, after four years with my g/f I know how to press her buttons.

robots dont count seph...

Don't think you are doing it wrong. Except. . . .



The malignant pieces of sh*t males that you are sleeping with. Sure they act all nice. Did you watch Michael Jackson on TV? They are all talkin' about how he guilts his victims into sex. "You'll do it if you love me." Moves an intimate moment into guilt. When you want to have sex have sex. You don't have to be pushed around and bullied. That's why it isn't any good for you.



Actually, if you want to try something. Find someone that you have always thought had sex appeal that you know. Dress up very nicely (to appropriate style), seduce him anyway you can and see what it's like being the agressor. It still won't last long probably, but you'll have fun and you might start really realizing what is wrong with your sex life.



All this f*cking bullsh*t is just bring me down! You guys should be ashamed of trying to make her feel bad. Kudos to the ones who might be decient. (Might be a pick up line.)



Most importantly take care of yourself. The more you rely on someone else the worse your problems will multiply. And there is always problems, so I don't want to hear about it.

I'm a decent guy..I'm most womens dream guy..unfortunately i'm also a figment of thier imagination.

i...am a jackass...no qualms though...it invariably hurts my sex life...

Errant you shouldn't be so hard on yourself man.
I know not everyone can be as damn excellent at everything as me but it's the trying that counts.

heh, Just was thinking about it..

Sex IS overrated...
Although i enjoy it. I have lived without it in a relationship..
So, yes, sex is over-rated......