Okay, I guess this is the forum that this belongs in. If not, I'm sorry, delet it or whatever.

Okay, I got out of school yesterday for the summer and was really happy. I'd have a week or so of extra time to spend with my boyfriend before he had to start work. I was all happy in thinking he'd stay the night and blah blah, but no, appearently his mom can't stand the thought of him being with me any more than he already was. So instead of letting him have one day of his summer before he had to start work she makes him come home because he has work to do there. I understand needing help doing shit at home but any decent parent would wait one or two days to let the kid have some of his summer. It really pisses me off that she couldn't wait like one day to make him work. And its not like his twin brother wasn't home to help? Why's she need both of them? Maybe I don't understand because I'm a spoiled brat who never works for anything, but I think its just wrong to not let your kid have at least one day of his summer before you put him to work. When his older brother was 17 he wasn't even living at home any more but no, the twins must stay her slaves.

How old is he? Why doesn't he just rebel and not listen to his parents for a day? Is that so hard?

He's 17, and I don't know why he doesn't just disobey once and a while. He always does what mommie says. Just once I wish he'd stand up for himself. He doesn't even question his parents. Like when they took money from him before we went to Animazement without even telling him.

dump him.....find someone else

sounds like a pussy anyway

umm.. no, I'd rather not dump him.. I probably couldn't find some one else. But thank you for the advice anyway. Its not like he has any way to leave home unless he walks or I go get him. I blame his parents, not him.

c'mon......please dump him

but seriously....uh......hmm......y'know, i was kinda in a similar situation....i dated this chick who was grounded for like months cuz she failed......turns out, she was actually just fucking someone else........but, uh......hmmm.....parents can be a bit over-bearing....especially with children of a "freakish/strange" nature.....but seriously.....he sounds like a fucking bitch.....if you can't give you're mother the finger at least once, then you got problems.........people are people, and people are assholes.....even parents.......

i'll just kick back and read this thread

He's 17...by the time I was that age I already had my parents broken down. You can always find somebody else or if you can't you can fall back on to some cyber loser.

I've basically got my mom trained. I do nothing but get everything, then again, I'm an only child and there's really nothing to do. I was raised different then he was i guess. But I've told him he needs to stand up to his parents. He's not a slave and he has his own life. They need to find some one other than him becuse next year he's going to be gone and his seven year old brother isn't going to be able to do all the shit he could. So they're basically fucked. But once he starts his job in a few weeks I'm taking things into my own hands, fuck his mom and what she wants. He's going to be here when he's not at work and if she has a problem with it she can come get him instead of having me drive him around every time she needs something cause she's too damn busy.

all of this is making you sound stressed out.... what if the guy never stands up to his mom like how you want him to? he isn't the only guy out there. and this guy sounds like he is pussy whipped by her anyway. but i'm going to agree with everyone else, you should break up with him and find your self another guy.

I think I can tough it out a little longer. No need for six months of my life to go down the drain because his mom's being a total bitch. If things continue like this for a long time though, his mom trying to keep him away from me and all, there will be some changes. Mainly me telling her to kiss my ass, her son belongs to me.

ok.... what is the real reason on the mom keeping her son away from you?

Probably because she never sees him any more. He's never home and when he is, I'm there. That or she thinks we're out getting wasted everynight or some shit. But that's her other son. She needs to stop being blind to what his twin is doing. She knows he goes out and gets wated and shit but she doesn't stop him ,yet she keeps my boyfriend away from me. She tries to keep my boyfriend at home like he's a baby. She doesn't know how to let the fuck go.

i'm glad you didn't take my reply the wrong way, and i hope you don't take this next reply of mine the wrong way either. cause of course i do think outside of the box all the time. because that is what i do. if you think you can manage to tough it out a little longer, then hey go for it. but if this guy would never stand up to his own mother. what would make you sit here and think he could and would stand up to his own mother at all? because if he doesn't make an effort to try for him self as well as for you, since you are his girlfriend. i can see this relationship going to hell. if he is really serious about you, he would be standing up to her right fucking now!! and eventually you will get tired on having to sit here and wait for him, if he doesn't stand up to her. your life won't go down the drain, unless if you make it happen for your self.

hmmmm your in a tough spot then......

Well he's here now. He bailed on his mom's basement cleaning because the bitch let his twin run off to get wasted at his older brother's house. He's supposed to go home tomorrow but he says he's not. Hope he's telling the truth.
And no, I didn't take either of your posts the wrong way. I'm very thankful for any one who offers me some advice. There is at least one good thing about him being pussy whipped, he obeys me. ^.^

good he finally stood up! well its a good thing that your boyfriend is with you right now, and above my head i saw a spark. well i'm tired and haven't been sleeping much. but before that spark interrupted me!! i'll get back to what i was talking about.

yeah its good that he is with you right now. and i was about to say with your mom for a minuet when i kind of spaced out for a while there. indeed he better keep his word on staying there tomorrow with YOU!!

~bangs head~

sorry i'm just over all tired..........

Shy shy, thanks for the advice you've been offering. I really hope you manage to get some sleep.

you are welcome.... i still haven't gotten sleep, don't know how many days it has been. but with this thread of yours, i got to know somethings about you...