my whole life my grandmother has pretty much dominated the bullshit-o-meter. she has batted me down at every fork in the road. she has single handedly (sp?) strangled most of my ambitions after high school and made an already difficult time for me even more so with her menapausul imbalance.
anyway, recently she moved away to englund to finish her tour of the world. her new job outscourced there she decided to follow the work and money over sea's. my first child falls into the mix. to be born around october 12-14th and i ecpected nothing but madness to ensue, but i am shocked and awed.

after all the hatred i have pent up for her i find my mind torn. she has offered to purchase a car for me and give me the family home in bridgeville. 300 dollars a month plus gas every year.

i feel like i shouldnt hope to much on this in the near future she has a past of ripping the carpet's out from under me just when im comfy, but how should i feel about this. expect the worst or do i give into the warm fuzzies and finaly forgive?


anyone else has such problems at anytime?

Be civil but remain extremely cautious. If she wants to do something nice for you, let her. But if for some reason it doesn't work out, have a backup plan.

It depends entirely on the circumstances. Only you know how you feel. I guess I was lucky enough to be given an awesome grandmother.

That sounds like a good deal, but be weary, she may try to use all that material wealth to keep control over you.

my grandma is one of those bad ones.. no matter what i do i cannot do the right thing. she always has something bad to say. and always has something up her sleeve. but lately, since i got out of high school and got married.. she has been a completely different person. see how you feel and do what you think is right. if you want to take the chance then take it. but hey.. like the others said.. back up plan..