I hate people who invite themselves places, because they know everyone who's going. Unless you're invited by someone, then bitch, you ain't invited. Remember that.

I hate bad drivers who don't know how to use mirror, signal, manouvere and cause you to break very hard on the motorway.

How do these people pass their tests?! I mean hell, I can drive like that no problem, but I've not got the bit of paper that says I can do it legally.

It's fucking scary.

I hate the bastard that invented the plastic sheath around new DVD's (have you tried getting that shit off?). That bastard, he needs to hung , drawn and quartered.

I also hate the jerks that disturb my lift ride just to go up or down one floor, the lazy bastards.

Okay, so my recent bitch has to do with my home life... Now I am not talking about "Waaaa! This won't go right! I'm gonna wallow in self-pitty for the next 5 years!" No, no its nothing like that.... The thing I am bitching over at this moment in time is my boyfriends mother....

Let me give you some background on this woman... SHe is mentally ill... Not to the point where she is phychotic or a total breakdown case... No... Not that all all... Just the fact that she relies on happy pills and will not stop taking them becasue she is so relyant on them, she won't... Now depression... We have all suffered from it, mental illness, most of us have (myself included) doesn't the doctor give you a course of medicine to take and level you off then gradually lower the dosage to a stop? Only in cases such as skitsophenia(sp?) you take pills for the rest of your life. Anyway, when my boyfriend and his brother were little, their mother decided to put my boyfriend on lithium and I dunno about his brother but his brother is so dependant on people now because of his childhood... Poor sod, I feel bad for him and his brother both. Anyway, I know my boyfriends story so I'm gonna tell that. She took him to see the doctor and told his doctor that he was mentally ill, my boyfriend, a minor at the time really had a say in it but she diverted it onto the topic "well he doesn't admit that he has a problem." Now he was on lithium when we started dating but he never took the pills... He actually okay without them... Then it struck me.... The easiest way to control someone is to make them think that they are mentally ill and to put them meds they don't need to control them... Now I clicked onto this and his mother hated me.... SHe was trying desperately to spilt us up... Telling him that his mental health was getting worse and that he needed to move back in with her.... But I'm a stubborn bitch... So I kept him with me and flushed his pills down the toilet.... Now, my mother passed away, his mother wanted to meet me (just so you know, she is a jesus freak) she asked me really personal questions that I couldn't answer and I thought it was rude of her to do so. She still hated me after that (I took her little boy away from her) until I found out I was pregnant with his child... Then she all of a sudden loved me....

Up to date on the subject now.... I had a little girl (as you all full well know) she isn't that bad with me now BUT heres something... She tells me how to take care of my daughter... Not just in the sense of "Do you think you should take her to the docotors?" No, its "I put an appointment on at the doctors and I will get my husband to take you there and tell him to call me from the doctors when he goes in with you." Yeah... Anyway, the family doctor is a good guy and yesterday, I had an argument wih my boyfriend because we took little Eth to the doctors a few weeks ago to get her injections for her being a year old... Now the doctors surgery didn't call us back and we thought everything was fint up untill last night...

My boyfriends dad called us.... He said that the doctor had called them and told them that the fridge that the syrum was in was not at the right temperature so they put an appointment on for little Eth.... They did.... The doctor did not contact us... The doctor contacted them... Me or my boyfriend did not put and appointment on for little Eth... They did.... Now its pissing me off... How is it that MY daughter's grandparents know more about what is going on with MY daughter than I do? Why is the doctor calling my boyfriends parents and not us about OUR daughter?

You know what? Today, when I go there for her, I am going to tell them that I will be changing doctors for OUR family.... I am sick and tired of his mother making appointments with the doctor for my boyfriend (Telling the doctor that he needs his pills for his non-existant mental illness), me (telling the doctor that I am mentally ill over the loss of my mother) and Little Eth (basically ruling her life beyond my boyfriend's and my authority.) I am tired of this.... I am pissed and I am not going to let her fuck up my daughter the way she did her sons...

DOn't get me wrong, I think its great that Little Eth loves her and she should be a part of Little Eth's life but honestly... If she keeps this shit up... I'm taking her grand-daughter and her son and leaving.... Because I'm that much of a spiteful bitch....

My rant is done....

ANd one more thing... CANADA SUCKS DICK!

Belgians are retarded,just like germans and the french.

Not to mention their ugly ass pussy prime minister.

He looks like my old geography teacher back in school....

WOW! You and I have something in common. My mother is certifiably insane too. She does about $100 of happy pills a week. She would act the same way, but I set the limits on that.

Know that one all to well

Thats a serious breach of medical ethics. Hippocratic oath and doctor patient confidentillity.

So you should, any surgery which would pander to the needs of one client over it's own moral and ethical duty to it's ACTUAL patient is not one i oculd trust.

Tell her that her help is appreciated but her interference is not.

Neon

Thanks for the advice neon, I actually called the surgery yesterday before I went there and asked the receptionist why this happened... Apparently, they do have my address and phone number but it is a secondary contact address because apparently, I told them to use his parents address and number as a contact and my own contact details as a secondary contact incase they couldn't get in touch with anyone there...

I did not do that at all so I think his mother did that to me... I was angry at the surgery for that and they said that I called up and made the appointment for little Eth last week when I didn't.... : / I was so mad at them for that. So I told them that I was changing doctors after her last booster shot and I contacted the local surgery yesterday asking if they are taking on new patients and they said yes they were. So I am changing to the local doctor next month.

I am handling things alot better than I was, it has been hard to cope, my boyfriend and I keep telling her to butt out but it doesn't matter how much we tell her, she just never listens.... It doesn't matter what we say or do, she stops for about a month then starts back up again...

Synikul, how do you handle things with meddling inlaws?

Heres something new which will probably start bitching on here...

I was looking over the girls of darkforum thread on the photography board.... Now my pictures are on there yeah, I'm pissing about with a digital camera and acting like a total fruit on most of them... Some are of me drunk and posing like a looney.... I think on there... I have about 2 serious pictures and they were taken by accident by my buddy....

I am giving that example because I don't take myself seriously... I know that I am pretty, granted I'm not half as pretty as some of you chicks on there but yeah, I have this way to laugh at myself and act stupid when it comes to photographs....

What I do want to bitch about are things that come to my attention when looking at that thread.

Most of you really pretty chicks on there, yeah you know who you are and thats great, I like attention attracted to me also when I post a picture but what I have noticed about most of the girls that post on there is the fact that some of them go "I'm not pretty! I'm too fat/thin/ugly/short/tall etc...." When they pose like they eat coal and shit dimonds.... It makes me want to puke! You chicks know what you look like and it is validated by the pictures you post there.... Shut the fuck up and stop whining like you're wholesome christian girls.... You're not that hard done by and you offend me by posing shit like that.... Most chicks would kill to look like some of you and all you can do is complain? Quit it already.... You all suck... You're hot, great, its official so shut your holes taking yourselves too seriously.... Its not as if anyone can post anything negative about any of you on there anyway, we have so say positive things about you or we get banned.... So fucking quit it....

A little shot of controlled assholiness does the trick. Be a bitch, but not too over the top, once in a while. Apologize later, and have an excuse ready. "I was having a really bad day and blah blah blah..." Even after you defuse it with the apology, it helps to set limits, because they will think twice before saying or doing something again that might set you off again.

Getting back to Len's Look at My ain't I ugly (please tell me I'm not and validate my shallow meaningly esxistance) thing..

That pisses me off.

Neon

I got one for ya. I was at the cemetary the other day and there was a guy and his chick hitting people up for sex. They propositioned some guy who was just leaving from a funeral. Then he hit on me. I explained that I am married and he asked me if that was the case, what my husband was doing letting do giong out for a walk. I don't think this guy evenconsidered the posibility that people walk for enjoyment or excercize, or for any other reasonthan prostitution. Am Ibeing unreasonable here? I understand that it's important to accept that there are all kinds of different people on this planet for good reason, but when the churches and cemetaries aren't even sacred any more..... oh what the hell am I saying, what's sacred any where any more.

My toilet is sacred,i keep filling it up with my holy water.

I couldnt get past goopy bullshit
but it obviously was good