Why do I come here?
Lets see, I stumbled upon the site originally by fluke when looking at
www.darksites.com wondering what Lillith's email address was all about (that was ages ago).
I can remember my first post was in a thread where everybody was bitching about "The Good ole days" and I immediately proceeded to butt heads with Crypt, ArSiNiK and Sire. Or maybe we didn't butt heads, but that was where my very first posts were.
I decided to stay, because my other online home was nothing but absolute crap at the time, melodrama here, melodrama there... at least here the melodrama is not so bad most of it is just joking around.
I also decided to stay because of the people. I've introduced over 20 people to this forum and they tended to stick around and abandon our other online home as well, so I remain, to talk to them. Them plus the multitude of other people I've grown to adore and despise.
I've seen both good days, bad days, and no days at all on this forum. Hung out for over a year and then took a year off. Then returned about... a month and a half ago or so. As usual, it was a situation of someone saying something that I just *had* to reply to.

That happens a lot... lol Kind of like this thread.
I think the diversity of topics which the forum provides for us to discuss, mixed with the diversity of people, makes it what it is. TdV was a "home" this is a "community" and then there's the big vast wide scary world out there as well... the world where chat members bombard you with a/s/l? and wanna cyber?
And so it was... that I remained.