What don't you consider to be a cliche? How about love?
sorry if i sound mean

cli·ché also cliche ( P ) Pronunciation Key (kl-sh)
n.
A trite or overused expression or idea: “Even while the phrase was degenerating to cliché in ordinary public use... scholars were giving it increasing attention” (Anthony Brandt).
A person or character whose behavior is predictable or superficial: “There is a young explorer... who turns out not to be quite the cliche expected” (John Crowley).


so what is your meaning? is sex overused? or is it predictable? how can something be overused if it is the primary drive of nature (meaning of life = genetic survivability)? by that rational im most definitely not using enough. how can something be THAT predictable if it happens behind closed doors. yes, i assume my friends and enemies are getting laid much more often than me... but then again (as im not in a relationship and dont believe in casual) most anyone would be...

as it is the primal function to reproduce, it is not the primal function to strap on a condom and fuck a sority girl, or convinve your girlfriend to take it in her backside, or wonder if she spits or swallows, or homosexuallity in general (and no, i am not a gay basher).....anyway, in that aspect it is obviously not a primal function, and hence a passtime, or if you like, a connection of two peoples souls....

hence, it can become very cliche......

actually homosexuality has been proven to be a chemical reaction...not persay a "matter of choice". Part of the glory of having intelligence, but also one of it's pitfalls is boredom and creativity...i'm sorry, but the missionary position is boring...sex with the same person is boring, so enter the creative aspect and a whole parade of kinks, fetishes, fantasies and all the delightful devices and toys that enhance sexual exploration...who wants to have sex just have babies, there's no fun in it it was a desire for sexual pleasure and the thrill of exploration that results in babies...except for those few that actually plan for such...deterents

actually rogue your thinking of master/slave...s&m is sadism and mascism...one likes to inflict pain and another receives the pain...master/slave(submissiveness and dominace) relations don't necessarily involve giving and receiving pain, it's about humilation and power(or at least those are the aspects that excite me about that lifestyle)

and on a final note...in my opinion sex is like anything else in life...it's what you make it!

The way I see it, granted, I'm a virgin, so I may have a skewed view, but hear me out, the people who HAD the urge to do all kinds of crazy crap with sex simply becuase they were capable of it (evolution), passed that genetic trait on. Thus, their offspring wanted more out of sex than babies... wait... i'm not deleting that part, but it's not what I wanted to say.



Those who had the urge to explore, explored, one thing led to another and folks got preggers. Kinks and fetishes are an evolutionary extrapolation of the basic urge to fuck to live. Kinks and fetishes are a vestigial structure, if you will. Like wisdom teeth or those tiny outer nose hairs you can barely see.

does no one get that I was reciting the chorus to a funny song?

Yeah...I laughed silently at all the misconstrued comments.

awwww *sniff* so sorry we didnt get your obscure quote... im just SOOOOO torn up about it.

DISCUSS THE TOPIC!

Sex becomes almost cathartic to me when its lurv, a new dimension. You can't beat it, well you can sometimes. It's all or nothing. A nun or a whore, oh no, I think I'm sexually bi-polar. I was really promiscuous in the past. Sex for sex sake just isn't enough.

tell that to the nymphos out there...

I'm going to print everyting you say into a bible and live my life by it.

I think the quality of sex depends on age and experiance. Face it, when you first were illuminated to the existance of sex, any sex would be good wouldn't it? I suppose that as you get more worldly about sex that it becomes mundane and needs spicing up, as it were... Not that I can say anything...

its like pudding... at first, any ole one will do... but eventually you just want tapioca...

Amen.


Or Awomen.

something like that...

my sex life is rather boring and dull, in fact i don't have one.....but it pisses me off when people are like, "Oh my god, i haven't had sex for four months"......oh fuck off! sex is not all that great, although it is extremely fantastic and yaddah yaddah yaddah, but give me wine and the simpons anytime.......as for another thing, all these toys and fetishes and what not are nothing more than justification for your failure to enjoy the necessary tools for sex......an organ/orfice and a person (preferably one you love in some way)

and what are you basing this statement on? your lack of sexual experiences...i've enjoyed many men without the aid of toys, and frequently do so for my husband, but phage is right when he mentioned sex especially those who engage in it frequently(at least once a night for me ) it does get boring, you can only be on top, lay on your back, stand up, prop up, thrust up and twist and bend so many times before you've done it all...if it comes to a point where toys replace your sexual activity and you are forsaken the warmth of flesh, the challenge of strength, the hands and tongue exploring your body, fingers deep inside rubbing and then the hand all balled up and ohhh yeah...well back on topic *blushes* than i'll agree that it's replacing something that is missing...but to just assume that everyone who has a vibrator, some leather paraphenelia with steel attachments, handcuffs, a whip, riding crop, a variety of edible paints and oils and particular characters designed for fantasy play depending on the mood is unable to enjoy the undescrible joy of live flesh on flesh, mind to mind, mouth to mouth...than your inexperience and generalization may explain your lack of sex!

Did my "kinky sex is only vestigial" rant make any sense?