you know i am starting to realize that making your self not to cry anymore is a very bad thing. the reason why i do this is because i don't like to cry over little things that are imporant or big. so i have taught my self to cry when ever death comes to someone i am close to. that is what i have trained my self to do. know when i choose to cry tears will be forming my eyes and then they will dry up quicklly. this isn't healthy. it makes you feel even more worse insides since you can't express it through tears.

not to be critical, but is there a point you're leading us too?

Hmmm.....

Crying is a natrural reaction, just like breathing. Everyone cries in certain situations. Holding tears doesn't mean that you have no emotions or you're better than others. On the other hand, crying over little things is very immature.

i don't know i was really down at the time.

yep that is why i have stopped doing that. but it does make you feel worse though.

Stopping crying makes no point. There are moments when we really want to cry (i.e. when we hear about death of someone important in our lifes). Sometimes we really have to stop crying (when someone's around). Well.. I think that if cry wasn't necessary, we wouldn't do it.

yeah when people are around i don't like to cry infront of them. so i get and walk some where else so i could be alone and cry. but yeah everyone cries when someone that was really close to us has passed away that is a normal feeling though. but you are right we wouldn't do it if it was necessary.

i like to cry, not that i cry a lot.......but i ain't afraid to cry.........if my heart is broke, i might cry.......if i watch a sad movie, i might cry.........i am very sensitive person, a pisces in fact, so yeah, i ain't afraid to cry.......i thought women like a man who isn't afraid to cry

no that is true. women do like men that aren't afraid to cry. cause women like some that are sensative just like you. not all women though. women are different when it comes to have a tough guy over a sensitive guy. so i'm glad you cry and that isn't afraid to show it. that makes me feel better about my self and thank you six.

show me a woman who likes a man who cries
and i'll show you a woman who secretly loves hot bastards

your well cum..........

but yeah there are some women out there that dig the sensative type of a guy.

really, cuz i can't find 'em........know of any? hook me up!

that would be no problem

i always hook people up when ever i meet a chick like i did one time at a bar with these four women from dallas texas and they were here for a visit in el paso and i introduced them to my brother since they spotted me first. i'll do the same for you.

hmmm........texan chicks? woohoo, geddi-up cowgirls!

hahaha

yep i'm a texan chick but not a cow girl though

if i was i would be chasing indians and killing them and taking them away from there land.

i'm part indian.....woohoo!

Crying. I don't remember the last time I cried. I was very young and it was many years ago. For the last decade I haven't really felt anything. When someone dies I do not morn, when something good happens I do not feel joy. I simply do not feel anything. I have determination and ambition. But these are all cold disciples of logic. I imagine it isn't a good thing not to feel. It does not make me despair however. When I lost the good emotions I luckily lost the bad as well. So, no tears, no laughter. Just existance.

...that actually strikes me as very sad...
don't get me wrong, i understand that you're not despairing over it, it just seems to me that existence without emotion would be so empty, so meaningless...


personally, i tend to be a major softy-i try hide the fact, day-to-day, but in the end, i can't really help it. i guess i'm just one of those guys that makes emotional attachments way too quickly for my own good...


btw, i'm a pisces too (go fishes, go fishes...)...though, i do have to admit that i don't know much about astrology, so i'm not really sure what all that means...


anywho, i'm just hoping that some of this made some kind of sense...

I find it to be a very...nice existence. The lack of emotion allows me to easily do thing that I might otherwise find difficult or distasteful. I see it as a type of liberation, one more bond cut from the bondage that is humanity.

I was never what one would call "emotional", not even as a child. I could feel then, I can vaguely remember certain emotions and what they were like. But one day I decided I would not feel anymore, that to do so was a weakness I could not afford. Once it was decided they seemed to simply go away.

Some men live their lives for love. They devote themselves and their being to it. There is no pursuit they hold dearer than that sacred task of finding it and holding onto it. I live my life for no such thing. I pursue different avenues. Rather than love I pursue power and knowledge. These things are by which I measure my life and its success. You may say that this is a life unlived, wasted, twisted, or even evil. Either way I've heard them all before. But I find fulfillment in these things, which is I suppose what people who are creatures of their emotions find in love.