You mean physically? Like - what you find most attractive? or what feature you look at first? (eg. eyes, legs) etc?

that was a good thing to ask him... since i'm curious about the samething.

Please be specific.

well i see how he didn't answer us yet... i'm still waiting...

i need to think a little bit more. before i start to answer your question....

1. it would be a certain way that she would look at me...
2. it would be a certain way that she would talk to me...
3. it would be a certain way that she would make me feel comfortable around her... instead of feeling shy, nervous, and intense...
4. it would be a certain way that she would smile at me...
5. it would be about her gracefulness...
6. it would be about how loving and caring she is.. her generosity.... her patients...
7. someone that is down to earth... don't know if that is the samething as her being generosity and patient...
8. being very sensual....
9. i would want her to have fun and be silly.... instead of having a stick up inside of her ass.... i don't want her to apologize over little mistakes that she will make once when she will spill a drink on me or whatever and be all paranoid from it... you spilled a drink on me so what... move on and have fun with me!! if i don't care then you shouldn't care..or freaking out about any other mistakes that you make... just CHILL THE FUCK OUT HUN!!! it isn't the end of the world... i'm ok and your ok that is all that REALLY MATTERS!!! just chill and relax when your with kendra in person....
10. there would be times where i feel seriously very affectionate and loving.. that if i want cuddle you or hug you... that she would do those very samethings to me as well... as i would do for her when she feels that way...
11. when i feel playfull.... she would let me be playfull

as far as body appearance goes... as far as being fat or skinny.. my first date was with a girl that chubby... but she was one of the top 10 spooky hottie girl list.... who lived in the same area as me and she lived down the street from me... we were also the same age.... and she was a wiccan... amber wolf is her name... her name on here was Evil Nun... she had a thing about nuns.. but we aren't together anymore... i think she lost interest in me...

hopefully i answered your post right and correctly..... i don't want my women to be totally skinny... i want them to have meat on them....they GOTTA HAVE THE MEAT!!!

Thanks a lot for your time and very exhaustive reply, Kendra. Awesoming point of view.

In effect we could say that MEAT is all !!!!

haha yes i should have... sorry about that extra ramble...

It depends. If I see a girl not facing me I will look at her body shape, and her tits and ass. and HAIR. I hate short hair on a girl.

Which all leads me to want to see her face. If her face is good looking then I am officially attracted. If it isnt. I am not.

If I see the face 1st, and its good looking I give the body a quick check over.

I look for personality first and foremost,
I can deal with them not being unfathomly hot physically,
as long as they are intriging,

for instance my husband has a fairly large mole on his face but he is never really boring,

well he is also very handsome.
it's just a little sickining when he asks me to help him pluck the hairs that grow from it.

Well of course its gonna be looks until i talk to them to get to know their personality. Eyes are a HUGE thing for me. Tall with a nice big upper body, broad shoulders. Nice smile. Ohhh yeah! Those are my weaknesses.

I HATE it when people say they look for personality 1st. What a LOAD of bullshit. Its like saying you read a book without ever seeing it.

Word.

I disagree with you. We are not all the same. Tijuana_Bandit is not the signle to think in this way. Many times personality is more attractive than sensual body.

Never tried to think to a very sensual VIP personality, but who is very very bad from personality point of view ? Think to many hollywoodian actors/actresses !


Comments ?

Comment? Yeah thats bullshit. If that were the case I am ausre you wouldnt mind marrying a 500 pound woman whos only interest is eating twinkies and buckets of mashed taters. So long as shes nice. What a crock of bullshit.

Heres a question for you. How do you know what someones personality is like if youve never met them? OWNED.

You asked for what we look for when we FIRST see a person. Of course its all gonna be about looks. You have to get to know the person to get to know their personality - It aint gonna be written across their forehead. Looks come before personality. Its a known fact. If there was this thin drop dead gorgeous girl on one side of the street and on the other a fatass ugly chick...we all know we would go to the pretty girl side and give her the time of day. Its how this world is. Looks are everything in the BEGINNING. End of topic. You can't fight my statement because it is true and you all know it. So i just ended this topic. Looks are what we look for in a person when we FIRST see them. The end!