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What should I learn/understand from this? - 07-26-04

There is a girl who I like... she has a boyfriend so I pushed those feelings behind but i'm her good friend. She has a roommate who I believe likes/liked me. I figured that out because she asked me out to a party.. because she gave me a valentines day card.. and wrote stuff like "garg is an awesome dude" and then signed it... We're friends..

All 3 of us attend an early early morning class.. One day I walk to the roommate girl and she looked half asleep.. so I said "heeey whats up. wake up!" and she said "shut up or I swear i'm going to chop your head off"......

so I stopped talking to her.. and she stopped talking to me. I figured she'd start talking to me herself... and I got word from the girl-that-I-like-kinda that I should talk to her.. but I said that she should talk because she told me to shut up...

This continued on for weeks...

Yesterday I was walking on the side walk and she was coming towards me.. she saw me and to avoid me she walked into traffic.. dodged multiple cars till she reached the sidewalk on the other side.. I just figured out that she has major issues

TODAY... I was walking.. and she WAVED AT ME.. and I said hi back

I'm CONFUSED! HELP ME!
  
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07-26-04

I cant believe you stopped talking to her because of that. What`s next...burning someone`s house down because they burped in public?

If you were told by "girl-that-I-like-kinda" that you should talk to her, it`s a good bet that they both noticed you werent talking to her and she avoided you because of that fact. She waved at you because it isnt a big deal and she got over it, which you now should and talk to her already.


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07-26-04

she said..

shut up.. or i'm going to chop your head off..

I shut up..

...

now that the waved.. I said Hi.... she took weeks to wave..
  
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07-26-04

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she said..

shut up.. or i'm going to chop your head off..

I shut up..

...

now that the waved.. I said Hi.... she took weeks to wave..
because you've stopped talking to her is why........... at least you got a wave from her though.
  
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07-26-04

just fuck em and forget about everything else!
  
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07-26-04

ya! what she said...
  
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07-26-04

It works wonders!
  
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"giggles"
  
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07-26-04

pay attention please.. she said "shut up i'm going to chop your head off" BEFORE WE STOPPED TALKING!!

its the CAUSE not the EFFECT!

the only 'atleast' in this situation is that ATLEAST she got a HI from meeeeeeee

  
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07-26-04

dude just kidnap her, tie her up, talk 2 her about stuff all while turning her on...shes a girl...she will give in...fuck the shit out of her...then leave! Its a perfect plan!
  
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she said..

shut up.. or i'm going to chop your head off..

I shut up..

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now that the waved.. I said Hi.... she took weeks to wave..
and you didnt talk to her for weeks....
That`s a serious overreaction for a single comment or a mood swing.

Anyway, this is when you start talking to her.


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07-26-04

Do What I Said! Damnit!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
  
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07-27-04

Maybe she considered you as a person to be more witty,and comical with.Usually people who have good friendships play around by saying stuff like that. You should have replied, "Wake up,or I'll chop YOUR head off." or something like that. or if she was'ent kidding,play the friend sympathy card, "Whats wrong with you?You sound like your in a bad mood." or maybe " I see YOU had alot of sleep last night"
  
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yea true.
  
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THIS is our fearless leader?

I am suddenly VERY afraid for the future. 8P


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07-27-04

she was tired and cranky...then she didnt talk because she was embarassed and u didnt talk to her either so she waved to let u know she didnt hate u


to live life with someone that doesnt understand you is miserable
but to live life with your perfect match is the equivalent to being in heaven
  
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and since she doesn't hate you and still gave you a wave... you should go and talk to her again garg.
  
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I did talk to her today.
  
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so how well did that go?
  
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I did talk to her today.
you fool... you foolish fool...


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