...you finally realise you are going to be alone the rest of your life.

Drink. Drink alot.


No seriously, why have you come to this conclusion?

Lately I have had a lot of time to think and reflect.


It seem the things I need from a partner no longer exsist in today's society.


People are more interested in the 'self' than anything else.

I could change my beliefs and values, but should I?

Change YOUR beliefs and values? never
You would eventually regret it before to long, as soon as you realize that you are not being true to yourself. I dont mean that as being too interested in the self as you said. There is a difference in being true to yourself and only thinking about yourself.
What do you need from a partner? Im sure its out there somewhere.

I think that I will be alone for the rest of my life and this is because I have not made any attempts for a partener and really have no need for one at the moment. What I do is just carry on with my regular business and perhaps this would change if I happened to meet someone. I wouldnt change my beliefs but if you are looking and needed someone perhaps changing your actions or lack or actions would help.

i hope you arent alone for the rest of your life. as far as i can see you are a good person. dont give up jobe. if you are destined to be alone then so am i.

There is someone for everyone....never change your beliefs, that would be a big mistake. The right person will come along, just dont give up, it always happens most when your not expecting it.

Solitude needs not be that bitter a fate...

The sage sits...
The sage watches...
The years pass...
The world goes by...

And still he watches...

Thank the maker that your money and your time are your own and that you don't have to bother wasting them all pleasing someone else just for the slightest hope of getting some poontang.

poonany?

You'll never be alone with me to pester you!




Sorry im embarrasing

Nah you are not.

What do you need from a partner?

Well.. a person who is with you just for your money isn't worth being around. Jobex said that what he needs no longer exists.. i'm sure he took into consideration the people who would take money.. no real feelings.. no care for the other.. People shopping for love.. I see far too many people who seem to have hearts of stone.

Just read the magazines.. the "advice" .. the "love" guides..
all they teach are how to play games.. games to get some
"pootang"... Its sad that people don't trust their hearts.. would rather please the world/society.. than go with their heart.. or with their partners heart..

I don't think its all lost. If you believe that you exist.. (you do!) .. then why can't there be someone else even half as much like you?

I know you are having that mood.. I have those a lot.. hehe.. its those times when my art is the best... but then everynow and then... i see a glimpse of hope.. glimpse? actually it slaps you on the face.. give it time.. Allow it to slap you on your face.. Don't prejudge people by saying that there are no true real people who you need.. They exist.. if you keep a closed mind.. then they will pass you by...

bling bling..

Yes he's right take me and Angel for example. We don't want anything more than each other.

tankies me dear

dont change yourself for anyone else- unless it involves giving up things like smoking and/or nasty drug habits but thats beside the point.

true, some values do not crop up in people as often as they maybe used to, but people also live a lie, a facade, because they are scared of their nature. qualities 'respected' in the capitalist economical society of today do not include kindness, compassion, caring and trust..

the other alternative is to become one of those annoyingly cheerful muffins (im getting there) who everyone thinks are nuts but at least are able to openly demonstrate these qualities..

sy...nice avatar .Umm...I think that eventually you'll find someone jobers.

~*Amy

Jobe I think you are an amazing person. I know that you will not be alone for the rest of you life, I truly belive that. The person you end up with will be truly lucky.

actually i'm not going to care. because i've had enough of it when it would come to looking for a partner. none of my relationships have ever worked out and i don't have the best of luck with women once so ever. i'll never have that kind of a luck with them at all for that matter. where as on top of it i'm tired of being interested in a women that i like while she is all ready taken by someone or they don't want me that way and want to continue on as to having a friendship with me. as well as the kind of women who say they are interested in me and then they will change there mind all of a sudden and say that they aren't... because i wouldn't let them have control over my life. so i'm going to stop and continue on with being an asexual and not worry about things like this anymore. because i'm fucking fed up with it. no women is out there for me... so i'm coming to the realization of it.