Ok.. so last year my BF went all-out for Valentines day.. so I told him that this year I would plan everything.. I HAVE NO IDEA WHAT TO DO!! It is so hard to do something romantic for a guy without making him feel like a pussy.. any ideas?

surprise him? blindfold him and take him somewhere fun for some outdoors sex (i forgot, how old are you gems)?

new lingerie? new roleplay?


hell if I know...

well.. it is too cold for outdoor sex.. thought of that.. and I just got new lingerie.. but I might get some more.. thx

I am 20 btw.. wow.. I can't believe I'm 20.. haha sorry...

give him nude photos of you. hopefully, they'll find their way to Kazaa for all our viewing enjoyment.

I'm tempted to give you such rotten advice that he'll leave you, after which you'll come back here distraught and ripe for the plucking!
Seriously though, I hear that a lot of guys really like figure skating . . .

hmm..well, i'm a lesbian so i guess my advice would be of much help. i'm giving my girlfriend a box of chocolates and treating her to a nice dinner. sorry, i tried

If he planned something soppy for you then he'll probably enjoy that too, gazing into your eyes and saying sweet nothings.

i avoid valentines day dates they always end up going wrong. plus i think its so over hyped that things that are said to me on that day that are lovey dovey tend to have less ressonance then they would normal, because your like expected to profess profund feelings of love on that day

To cold for out doors? Try a in public place for a quickie. Like sneak into the same bathroom or something.

Something that I've found that works is coupons. You can buy books of sex/kiss/whatever you want coupons, or you can make your own. Making your own usually works better, as you know what you lover would ask for/want.

For an annivarsary I made a book for my boyfriend, each page had a reason I loved him.

I'm gonna keep rambling cuz I do things for my boyfriend all the time. Maybe some things will work for you too.

Once I took my boy around town to all the places I thought it would be fun/exciting to do things with him, and at each place told him in detail what I would do to him if we could pull it off. I ended it at a place where we actually could pull off things, and well I'm sure you can figure out the rest.

A night doing things he likes always works. Seeing the movie he would pick, instead of the one he'll settle for. Stuff like that.

Uhm. If you need more, say so. I'm sure I could think up more.

he made it worse!! for our anniversary last week he took me horseback riding! (That is a big deal for me.. long story) So far I got the "romance package" at a local hotel.. free movie, chocolate, Victorias Secret gift card.. I wish there was more stuff geared toward him in it, but he likes lingerie and I think I'll make cookies and play catch, cuz he used to play baseball and he misses it

if you're buying him the gift card, you better be damn sure you wear whatever he gets you with pride and lust... else he'll be very disappointed.

ppsshhtt.. who says the lingerie is for me?? I love a man in a lacey thong!

Thank you for that poorly-covered, hairy-butt mental image.
I think I'd rather poke my own eyes out than look at a man in a thong.

If we bother this year, I'll probably get my husband a bottle of whisky, that always goes down well.

Provided he gets her the right size.

That sounds perfect. Ooh... Thank you!