O.k. let me start this way I am what I call myself a recovering lesbian who still gets the itch,
and I have no problem whatsoever having 3somes with my husband and other women,
But since I started sleeping with guys about 5 years ago I have wanted a 3some with 2 guys, however my guy does not want this.

I need some advice on how to maybe convince him.

sorry but he sounds like a selfish dick if he's quite happy to fuck you and other girl but wont return the favour for you. perhaps you should say that to him.

This is a touchy subject allways.. guys who want 2 girls are most often accused of wanting another female..And the girl gets jealous..

And, i would think, that most guys feel the same way about having another guy as well..

I might suggest that you tell him that you will no longer involve him in any 'encounters' involving females from here on out. If he can trust you ( being bi as stated ) with another female. why can't he trust you with a male....

Wont happen. More than likely there is no way to convince him. Its a double standard, but he is observing the 1 dick maximum per fantasy rule.

Why is it selfish? She likes women and men. He likes just women I am assuming.

Ive been down tis road w/ my girlfriend. THe difference is that she likes girls and boys. and I like just girls. SO when we bring a friend in, its mutual because we both enjoy it. But I will be damned is some other mother fucker gets anywhere near my woman. Id prefer to kill him instead. And I dont care how selfish and unfair or whatever that is. I am guessing this is the way most men feel.

its just differnt.

There's no "returning the favor" she knew his feelings before she brought another chick in.

Bingo. And its not like she didnt enjoy the other woman, afterall she called herself an ex lesbian.

You're a recovering lesbian(hmm?) and he has a problem with you wanting another male body, but it's okay for you to sleep with women? That's a worry. Obviously he's not concerned with you getting emotionally attached and leaving him and it's only another dick that he feels insecure about, so...............get yourself two other men and he can watch without getting involved. If it's all physical with no emotional attachment what's his problem with that scenario?

Uhh yeah that'll go down well.

lol, but the proposal response will be interesting.

I just don't see why he and otherguys as well wont do it.

It's not like I am asking him to suck another guys cock,
I just want to be the meat in the sandwhich for once.
Thanks Spikess and Darktiggr I'll have to try that some time when he doesen't have a beer in his hand.

and soulfull I'll try that just for the shits and giggles factor,
yeah the look on his face should be worth it.

Because, its differnt. Its hard to explain, but thats the way it is.

Ok what is it?
Is it the fact when there are 2 chicks you feel like its all about u?
your fucking one while the other sucks you off?

well Imagine for once a women jus wants it to be all about her, to suck my man off while be being fucked so incredibly hard by some Anonymos guy.
but mayge guys are just to fucked up and they can't get over their ego or pride or whatever the hell it is that keeps them from being so god damned close minded.

If you cannot deal with the male ego, and we all got one. Then I suggest you go back to lesbianism. Hes not going to change im telling ya now.

Its differnt, it just is. and I cant come up with a good reason for why that is so, at least not a fair one. But thats the way it is.

well fuck maybe I just better go buy another strap on and find a butch.

Now youre thinking! I wish I could explain it to you, but for men its like a killer for our pride to see another man touching our woman.

well what about orgys?

see that's the thing I told my man that next year for my 23rd I want an orgy and he agreed to that.
This just does not seem right.

I dont think he will go through with it, unless youre only being touched by him and other women.