Well humm if it's not too late for my 2 cents on this subject ?..

As a guy who has let his wife have this dream of a 2 guy threesome , Id have to say we had a LOT of fun with it ! ( but im not most men!) .

However just like when you first introduce TOYS the male ego may take a little time to warm up and become secure with the situation ..

I would say this is something your man may never do !
It unmanly to have another man USEING your woman !
It's Unmanly to even be close to another naked guy ! Hell most of us wont even talk to each other in the restroom !
If the other guy seems to please you more than him it can be devistating !!( or if yer guy isnt sexualy secure with himself the whole thing could just ruin his little world !) it's hard to describe ...The Male sexual mentality can be fragile no matter how big da man . We Guys have friggin sexual DEMONS to overcome growing up ! and it's all ego/enviromentaly based

Now on the OTHER hand if your as sexualy wild as you sound HE will just have to come to terms with it he cant expect you to change and you will just have to deal with the situation youve put him in by having the relationship in the first place ! Hell by now you might as well stop saying your an EX-Lesbian and just call yourself BI ! you like both ! and I can see this being an issuse if your bringing a straight into that world good luck !
an yeah the fact that yer pregger's could also be a strain on his mentalyity ..
aw hell good luck your gonna need it !

i think what it is based on with the difference between men and women into this category. is that when men let a woman fuck another woman and him being the only guy into a threesome. is because a woman cannot fuck another woman like how a guy can fuck a woman. mainly with both women it's just sensual and can be hard at sex and with the useage of a strap on and a strap isn't a real dick and so the guy wouldn't find that to be personal to the women he is with. when it would come to having the kind of threesome you want....


i'm thinking that has to be the main reason... "keep hands off of my dam wife"

By the way, You should NEVER have consented to let him have a 3some with you and another woman without telling him that you mat want to reciprocate it with another man one day. That was a dirty trick.

OMG!!! can this be ?! Billy an Self Agree!! on this one LOL!!!

honey, that's just humor. if you want to delve into 'who abused you as a child?," we can. i'm sure it was a family member, and not just once but several times, which is probably what drove you into lesbianism in the first place. after all that 'emotional truama' you found a man that a) didn't physically abuse you, b) would listen to you and c) was open for your sexual escapades. based on that you decided he was your 'soul mate.'

unfortunately, the advice window has already closed on your life. you moved too fast with your current man. just because he represented the 75% of the population that could relate or understand you he automatically became some mythical relationship creature. on top of that you don't have the common sense to use birth control, which has left you pregnant. in a few months you'll be a mother, the nice lady that nourtures her kids, but you still want to get fucked in the cunt while another guy hogs out your asshole.

it's pretty obvious that you moved way too fast. you need years and years of psychiactric help.


so, you want some advice? that's pretty easy...

comprehend that you're a mother now. your days of being a threesome whore should be over. learn how to take care of a child, especially since, i bet, you'll be a single mother before the kid is 10 years old. figure out that 'fucked-up childhoods' usually repeat themselves, because the parents surround themselves with people that represent their past. and be proactive. look, watch, listen and understand what your kid is doing, it's obvious that your parents never did that for you, otherwise they woud've protected you from the bad things in your childhood.

You know you are right on a lot of levels but I already have a 2 year old daughter and I can tell you now there is nothing that i would ever let hurt her or my soon to be son,
as for the single mother thing I could see that as a possibility especially if he doesen't start helping clean the house.
have been through like 10 years of counsling (thank states custody for that) and I have already started breaking the cycle, I will not ever be like my mother in her ways of parenting.