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what's the fuckin point then.
I don't wanna be married anymore "Your breathing sounds like the sickest music playing backwards in my head"
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Originally Posted by Undiscovered what's the fuckin point then.
I don't wanna be married anymore |  and I am stuck in an unfullfilling relationship at this point. | |
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it is different for men, ive even joked about it to my b/f the fact that he'd probaly have a threesome if it was another girl but not another guy, an i proceeded to make him squirm for a lil while (in this case it was just in fun)..
but your husband will know this full well, and thats why it is selfish, the fact he knows he would never want to have a threesome with another guy no matter how much you want it, yet he still agrees to fucking another woman with you, thats him getting his cake and eating it.(i dont really get this expression, who doesnt get a cake to eat it??)
you really only have two choices accept you arent getting a threesome with your husband another man, and keep having them with women, but im pretty sure that will only end up with you resenting him.
or quit the threesomes all together till the pair of you can come to some sort of compromise.
i dont really think you can blame him, however annoying it is..it is just the way (most) men seem to be, they cant help. "cheerleaders are dancers who've gone retarded." To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts. | |
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Originally Posted by Undiscovered what's the fuckin point then.
I don't wanna be married anymore | i think thats a bit harsh
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Originally Posted by Spikess i think thats a bit harsh
just try talking it through and see if you can reach some sort of compromise. | all in frustration would never divorce him over this (maybe if doesen't start helping clean)
There just might have to be no more 3somes, as much as i enjoy them  "Your breathing sounds like the sickest music playing backwards in my head"
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Originally Posted by Undiscovered all in frustration would never divorce him over this (maybe if doesen't start helping clean)
There just might have to be no more 3somes, as much as i enjoy them  | Just accept that its differnt and youll be happy. I assume you like 3soming with women as much as he does. | |
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Originally Posted by Soulfull What about another couple? How does he feel about that? | More than likely He will say no, because a man is a man is a man. | |
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I do enjoy our "encounters" but a little variety never hurt anyone,
I could ask him about another couple (there is one I have my eye on)
but Billy's right he will probably say no.
worth the effort though. "Your breathing sounds like the sickest music playing backwards in my head"
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Originally Posted by Soulfull Don't you mean, a man is a dog is a pig. | Only most of them,
the one s that aren't are gay
just jokin "Your breathing sounds like the sickest music playing backwards in my head"
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Originally Posted by Undiscovered I do enjoy our "encounters" but a little variety never hurt anyone,
I could ask him about another couple (there is one I have my eye on)
but Billy's right he will probably say no.
worth the effort though. | Well, he will probably have the problem with you being with another guy. But he might give a little seeing as he will most likely be doing the girl and not have the 'threat' of being involved physically with they guy. Beware the ex's.. They ARE out to get you... Nice guys finish last It isn't just a saying.. It's a fact of life! Those things that produced your ex......you know, the bitchmakers! Metagion If you have sex with a prostitute against her will, is it considered rape or shoplifting? | |
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hmmm makes sense, a lotta sense actually
I'm making him baby back ribs and mashed potatoes tonite so it will be a good time to ask. "Your breathing sounds like the sickest music playing backwards in my head"
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 you still pregnant? or have you finally availed yourself of the extra luggage? Beware the ex's.. They ARE out to get you... Nice guys finish last It isn't just a saying.. It's a fact of life! Those things that produced your ex......you know, the bitchmakers! Metagion If you have sex with a prostitute against her will, is it considered rape or shoplifting? | |
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uh... well, if you're still prego, I could TOTALLY see him not wanting some other pecker bumpin' heads with his kid. Yup, understandable. And, once the baby is born I'd suggest spending your time nurturing him/her rather than threesome hunting. So, yeah. You're effed.
My suggestion: Bring out the toys and have him use one on you while you're going down. Or, if you want dp action, he can use one while you're boning. If it's only about being stuffed, that should work pretty well. Don't Drink and Park. Accidents cause people. To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts. | |
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Originally Posted by Soulfull Don't you mean, a man is a dog is a pig. | Yeah just as much as I mean a woman is a whore, is a slut is a leech. | |
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Originally Posted by Undiscovered Only most of them,
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just jokin | As if women dont like sex, puh-lease.
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Originally Posted by Darktiggr Well, he will probably have the problem with you being with another guy. But he might give a little seeing as he will most likely be doing the girl and not have the 'threat' of being involved physically with they guy. | Its possible, but not likely, because it has nothing to do with him seeing another guy and everything to do with another guy touching what he construes as HIS woman. Its really not that hard to comprehend. | |
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Originally Posted by >FuckDoll< uh... well, if you're still prego, I could TOTALLY see him not wanting some other pecker bumpin' heads with his kid. Yup, understandable. And, once the baby is born I'd suggest spending your time nurturing him/her rather than threesome hunting. So, yeah. You're effed.
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well they have been put on hold for a while but the future seems to come and go pretty quickly.
and yeah still prego hence the 3 months and counting in my sig,
although I am a breast feeder so it will probably be a little longer.
due date April 18th. "Your breathing sounds like the sickest music playing backwards in my head"
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