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Ok, so, surely most of you have seen the posts from Chaos Creator lately, especially here in the Advice section... Lost love, discontent, self injury, suicide...

He and I had been talking every day, either on the phone or through email, usually both... and then, nothing. I haven't heard from him since Monday.

I mean, probably his computer is down... and the phones are out... and his cell is out of minutes... or his girlfriend is freaking out about us talking, and hasn't gone to work in the last three days.... right?

This is going to seem really dumb when he comes in here and laughs it off in a few days, but right now, I'm really worried...


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03-20-08

I don't think you need to get worried yet. Chaos has been known to disappear for awhile from the site so maybe it's just a matter of otherthings to work on.


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I don't think you need to get worried yet. Chaos has been known to disappear for awhile from the site so maybe it's just a matter of otherthings to work on.
it's not just this site...


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03-20-08

It could just be something Chaos normally does. I would either give it a week to see if Chaos returns or contact someone else that Chaos frequently talks with to see if they have heard anything.


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03-20-08

I guess it's hard not to overreact considering you're not sure what's going on...most humans don't deal well with ambiguity anyway, but...

I mean you don't know that something terrible has happened, so it might be difficult but don't dwell on that just yet. It could be a myriad of very harmless things.


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03-20-08

well, thanks for the comments, guys...

i know it's not a rule for him to come here every day or anything, but he hasn't answered email or phone, either... or signed onto myspace...

i'm sure it's nothing...


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03-20-08

Maybe this will help cheer you up.

But you'll need audio.

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It's not a picture, but I haven't laughed so hard in a looooooong time

YouTube - Food Court Musical


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03-20-08

Holy crap...

I was just giggling a little till the janitor came out then just busted out cracking up, so thank you for the laugh from me too. ^_^


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03-20-08

I loved the security guard. I didn't think he was in on it.

I spit out my coffee on the monitor when he started singing.


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03-20-08

I just sent my friend the other link in an IM and she liked the security guard too.


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03-20-08

youtube no worky on government computer


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take the link home with you. You won't be disappointed.


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Well, look at when you get home...you will get a good laugh.


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Ok, so, surely most of you have seen the posts from Chaos Creator lately, especially here in the Advice section... Lost love, discontent, self injury, suicide...

He and I had been talking every day, either on the phone or through email, usually both... and then, nothing. I haven't heard from him since Monday.

I mean, probably his computer is down... and the phones are out... and his cell is out of minutes... or his girlfriend is freaking out about us talking, and hasn't gone to work in the last three days.... right?

This is going to seem really dumb when he comes in here and laughs it off in a few days, but right now, I'm really worried...
yes, yes you are. it's called life. things happen. just chill out and it'll be okay.

i know it sounds cold but really you gotta just take everything with a pinch and go forward regardless. no-one ever gets anywhere by worrying or thinkings. actions only.



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03-20-08

Yeah. Worrying really doesn't change anything. It just makes you worried, wastes time and energy.


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03-21-08

he might just be hunting rabbits for easter.
Give it another few days. And then you'll know.


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03-25-08

Still nothing. Apparently he is fine, and I've just been made to look and feel like a complete retard.


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03-25-08

Nah, you were made to look like someone who gives a shit, and there's nothing wrong with that at all.


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03-25-08

there may be nothing wrong with it... but it feels just awful.

thanks, though


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I feel like a complete ass.



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Burn, bitch, burn.
  
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