so, there's this girl....
FriendshipDiscuss so, there's this girl.... in the Welcome forums; there's this girl that i sort have a thing for...
i used to work with her boyfriend, and every time she comes over with him, all i can do ...
there's this girl that i sort have a thing for...
i used to work with her boyfriend, and every time she comes over with him, all i can do is stare and act like an idiot...
last night, she confided in me that she was bisexual....i guess she felt comfortable doing so because her boyfriend let her know that i am also....
however, i have no idea if she would ever have any interest in me...
i have no idea how to find out...and no idea what to do....
am i supposed to just sit back and long for her?
am i supposed to wait for her to take action?
or what?
"eyes of a fallen angel...eyes of a tragedy..."
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"he said you're really an ugly girl..but i like the way you play..."
wait for her to do something... if she doesnt then u have to take the plunge... it would be scary but its easy..... write a letter or tell her in person... i wrote a letter to a chicky that i liked and it worked out well..... so good luck.....
*QUOTE TO PONDER: The greatest pleasure in life is doing what people say you cannot do. *
Hush little baby dont say a word
Death is knocking at your door
If you try to run and hide,
Death will bust his way inside
If you jump out the window
Death is smart he will know
You try to run but he's faster then you
He'll get u and there's nothing you can do
Just maybe if you get away
Death WILL come another day
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i would watch her and look for any hints. and if there are, well then go for it.
question: when i think of someone being bi-sexual i still think of them being monogomous, but some people think that bi-sexual people have a girlfriend and a boyfriend [in ideal situation]. what do you reckon? are you up for sharing?
i've had a boyfriend and a girlfriend at the same time...and it wasn't that much of a problem....
*shrugs*
"eyes of a fallen angel...eyes of a tragedy..."
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"he said you're really an ugly girl..but i like the way you play..."
Originally posted by QueenOfSolitude there's this girl that i sort have a thing for...
i used to work with her boyfriend, and every time she comes over with him, all i can do is stare and act like an idiot...
last night, she confided in me that she was bisexual....i guess she felt comfortable doing so because her boyfriend let her know that i am also....
however, i have no idea if she would ever have any interest in me...
i have no idea how to find out...and no idea what to do....
am i supposed to just sit back and long for her?
am i supposed to wait for her to take action? or what?
I've always taken the "or what" option (and i'm still miserable). if i had the nerve to do what i advise, i'd take action, but if your not comfortable doing that, i fully understand.
Originally posted by errantrogue it always seems that im living in the wrong town... jeez
You too huh.
I want to live in a world of peace
Without conflict, like the one I’ve seen in my dreams.
I just can’t keep it inside
I’ve gotta say what I wanna say
Your face doesn’t show your fighting pose.
Azzystar! Become friends with her first. That's my suggestion. ~smiles~ Not necessarily like best friends type friends... but get to know more about her etc.
i was in the same situation with a friend of mine. one day when she was over (i agree with Sinistress, become friends, good friends, first) and i just asked her. he he he, we are VERY close now.
If she is still with her boyfriend then I wouldn't make a move, out of decency and consideration for him. Just be friends..
If they are split up be friends and then tell her
Good luck
Well alot of guys don't care if there gf has a gf. i never did. most of us start to get prickelly when you try to bring another man into it. for me personally i think it was because of the frenge benafits of my gf bringing her's to join us during play time.
and to the problem, get your courage up and ask her. worst thing that could happen is she says no.
There are worse things than death.......much worse things!