Good god your a bastard, but I like your style...

Okay I don't want to read this whole thing and I know it's pretty old but, question: How old are the two of you?

that was my first thought too.

my only thought is get over it already. Be hurt, be upset, acknowledge it, and then get over it.

the last step there being the part where you go through the first 3 steps over and over and over and over. depends on how many justifications/confessions you need to acknowledge to yourself of what you put yourself through.

nice summation there, SDS.

my contribution: do you really feel pain over your love for her? or do you feel pain over your abused energy/love that you invested? think about it.

thanks, but that's definately not my idea,

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changed my outlook on life. great book, well written, fast read.

i'm coming in on this a little late, an i'm not sure of the current situation,

but from your initial post you sound like a ddcent guiy who was betrayed, now noone deserves that, and from been in a relationship like that you prolly thinking that all women are like that, now there not mate, my GF an I have our fights usually one week a month but if you are ment to be together you would know it, you wouldn't be asking for advice, and comments like "drop the bitch" are prolly not overly welcoming, you need to get out of feeling sorry for yourself and find a new girl OR give the old one the ultimatum, last chance saloon, if you really want it. Tell her tell her that you deserve better and she is the lucky one, if she loves you she'll under stand,

I hope this helps mate

Bottom line - I can tell by the way you are talking that you must be young. Too young to get married, probably. (Like wrestling with the guy your girl hooked up with.) Either way, I think that you probably have other things to work on before you can even think about marriage.

she is 20, as well as myself.. but its nothing to worry about now.. A thing of the past i got the hell out of there... She ( last i knew ) was dating some guy she use to talk to when her and i dated... I could really care less i havnt spoken to her in awhile anywayz.. ha ha ha.. its all good..

* holds up glass, then takesa sip *

Glad to hear!

But what happened to the other situation? Or was this meant to be on the other thread?

break up with her, cut his tires, flex tie him with about 2 other guys, drive him into the country, pour gasoline on him and burn him. you're going to have to drive inland to stay away from the water table. job's done. pay a SMOKIN hot escort or find a really cute girlfriend to go back to the house to pick up your shit. that's going to be the deal breaker. make sure you show a LOT of pda in your ex's presance. job's done.