ok its like this. i am dating this guy, and we love each other very much. but a problem has arose. i had a really dark secret, that i hadnt told anyone. i mean no one else knew (exept for the people involved in the legal process and my rents). i told him because i thought he had a right to know. it explained why i am scared of attacment. AND HE TOLD SOMEONE ELSE.

he was always telling me not to talk to this kid. this explains it. well, against his advice i talked to him anyway. i dont remember how the conversation turned that way but out of no where he goes "yeah fran told me" my world crashed around me. i was still unforsure is her knew or not so i played stupid and then he told me. i felt so betrayed... he's in another town so i cant talk to him. i dont want to talk to him. what do i do?!

Your Morning Star

-Dri-

I`m assuming you directly told him not to tell anyone else.What you should do is be mad at him tell him why and say that he better not doing any shit like that again.If he thinks he can play with your trust like a toy(if indeed he is) then he`s not mature enough to be in a relationship.

I agree with redmeat..

If its a VERRRY secretive thing then I'd say dont even give him another chance..

yes, i told him dont tell anyone, at least 3 times. rest assure i'm more than mad. but i feel more betrayed than anything.

it is. it took me 8 years of thearapy to get over it, or come as close as i think i can.

Your Morning Star

-Dri-

also, i dont want to jump to any conclusions. i havnt talk to him yet and i wont see him untill tomorrow. the kid i talked to might have also heard it from another person. and the only reason she knows is 'cuz she's one of my bestfriends and a simmilar situation happend w/ her so i took comfort in that. but i talked to her and she hasnt told anyone.
when i talk to everyone i'll keep posting....

Your Morning Star

-Dri-

Dri, I'll tell you this this guy isn't worth your time unless he is suffering along with you. Fuck with the guy a bit before you dump him you atleast deserve to have a little fun. The guy's a bastard and he deserves to have a horrible life for all the things he has done.
Send him to hell Dri.

dont worry i will. unless he has a damn good reason for telling every secret that i have confide in him...a damn good one. otherwise its over. it kills me to say this, but it wil be over. i love him so much, why would he do that to me.

dont worry i will. unless he has a damn good reason for telling every secret that i have confide in him...a damn good one. if not, its over. it kills me to say this, i love him so much. why would he do this to me?

ok well all i can say is i'm here know matter what and just remember august 3rd fun fun fun well i hope everything works out for you love ya babe

OK, SORY. THE THING THAT SILVERFLAME POSTED WAS ME ON HER NAME.....STUPID BLOND MOMENT AGAIN....

Trust is perhaps the rarest and most valued of things. I truly trust maybe 5 or so people, and they had to work for it. Incidentally enough, those same people are the people I love. If somebody that close to you told a secret that was that personal and that important, then where is the trust? If you don't trust a person, how can you love the person? The two go hand-in-hand, in my opinion. Perhaps it's time to stop and re-evaluate things with this guy.

so far i think thats the best advice i've gotten. the only reason i still "love" him is because he was always there for me. when i got really sick a wile back, i couldnt even get off the couch. they took me to the hospital and when i got back he came to visit me everyday. everytime i was sad or upset i would call him and he would fix it. why would he do this to me? why would he hurt me like this?