i had a question about me and my boyfriend im 18 and hes 22 we´ve been liven together for 2 years now and it seems already our sex life is dying down he just seems not to want to try anything new anymore or want to do anything kinky and stuff like that and lately ive been finding him sneeking home porno mags and movies and its not like we ever get to watch them together or anything its just the fact he sneeks and lies when im not home or when im sleeping and it bothers me to think that maybe he´s bored of me and rather see a girl on a cover in a mag or somethen like that u know i mean should i have the right to me mad or maybe im not fullfiling his needs right now or what thats just what ive been filling like lately and ive been filling pretty low thinking he´d rather look at somethen else when im lying right next to him and he can have me whenever he wants am i just being dumb or should i be upset im confused can someone give some advice

what changes have occured physically since you two moved in together?

dude....i mean, dudet (hellz yeah teenage Mutanat Ninja Turtles!)....um, he's a man....and 22....itz natural for him to like porn.....itz not that he's bored of you, itz just that sumtimes masturbation is key for him....for anyone really....especially men....and men prefer porn rather than just crankin' one off in the bathroom......you been dating 2 yrs and your sex-life is calm.....thatz natural, not too mention he's 22 and is coming out of his sexual-drive's peek.....men's usually last from about 17 to 22......

be honest with yourself. you dont' have to tell me, but i'll ask you a question.
do you complain a lot?
i don't mean to sound like a jerk, but i'm sure i will. women have a tendency to complain a lot and end up becoming more of a pest than a haven of pleasure. ha.

there's something more than what's meeting the eye here. i don't think it has to do with his age. and i'm sorry, but porn is just good for laughs imo.

no i dont complain alot i mean god if i was locking up myself in the bathroom and gettin off on looken on other guys he'd wonder what the hell was wrong with and wondering why i have to get turned on at other people he just can't get it through his head he does it to me all the time but damn 22 shit if he's coming out of his peak then he should take it out on me i mean why shouldnt i also have the right to look around im only 18 as well so should i sit around and wait till he wants or am i just being so selfish because whenever i want he's not in the mood Mumbles* cuz he already took care of that in the bathroom*

what changes do u mean darktiggr ....like did i get fat over the last 2 yrs.? hell no and he's fine as hell i want him all the time ...its just like so babe u gonna use a porno tonight or do u wanna sleep with me...heh

i like sic. he's a good friend on here, but i'm gonna have to disagree here.

you guys won't last if the porn keeps up. or at least, you won't ever be content. one thing i can already tell. the communication between you two isn't working.
you two need to talk. lay everything on the table. something deeper is leading him the way he's going. it might be something you're doing, maybe something in him.

As a woman - I'd find it deeply disturbing if my partner didn't look at porn - hell I do! It's natural, the problem arises when he prefers porn to actual physical contact from you.

Talk to him about it - you never know, you might be missing out on something that could actually enrich your sex life together!

Hmm, then i would ask next if you are doing what surreal was asking... But extend it to simple things like work, tv show choices, movies to rent, food to have for dinner/lunch/breakfast, whos turn to take out the trash or wash the dishes, ect... finances can always eat up domestic happieness..

Now i assume(a bad thing i know) that you are not the one saying no to things in the bedroom.. If this is so, are you wearing the same things in the bedroom?? even black thongs get boring after awhile...

And if you know what type of porn he's watching....... have you tried matching what he's watching in the bedroom?? clothes, terminology, movements...

meh i just think that you should start looking at porn your self.
then seeing what his reaction is.....

yeah, my gf used to watch porn with me....she would just laugh while i got hard.....

i go with dark soul, start cracking out the porn. if he gets bitchy about it dump his sorry ass.

Er ..It aint his age !!
Porns just a sex aid,and at 32 the wife and i have plenty O Porn around ( most of it's her's ) ..
Now self will hopefuly never turn down the real thing for pictures ,hell I find most porn boring after a few minutes and prefer to read a good ( XXX ) story vs pic's and film anyways ..
However ..sex is also goverened by our emotions and outside situations ..
So here good ol self IS about to choose porn and Rosey Plam over my extra marital sex toy ( yes the wife and I alow thoose in our marrige ) due to ..
1 Shes too hard to get to ..lives too far away and with only 1 day a week avalibility it's a pain in the ass ..
2 We cant use her place and mine has kids that get up in the middle of the night an were just not ready to explain this kind of thing to our kids yet ..etc.
3 yea ive had her a few times and the thrill is about gone ..( love the hunt chase and kill but at the same time THIS chick is not my life mate so I have none of the snuggle factor loving etc. ) and well once im done playing instead of being able to just jet ,I have a LONG car ride to take the person home when all I want after THE ACT is to shower brush my teeth then snuggle up with my wife and goto sleep ..

So just like the other wise ones here have spoken to you IT'S Time For and your man to have a talk .

exactly damn i mean yeah i know some things get boring after awhile but theres only so many damn things i can change about myself to make him happy and allow myself to be comfortable with me heh people sue television everyday for acting out crap on tv i swear im gonna sue pornos for making my boyfriend think because the girls like it on tv means im gonna like it in the ass okay im kidding but certin things hurt ehkay its not always enjoyable as it looks on freaken movies and im not gonna lay there and take a dick in my ass when it hurts like a mother fucker just cuz the girls on tv can slidddeeeee it in so easy bleh...anyways what im trying to say is i try to do all these damn things to make him happy and personally i got what i want and i got my life long partner so we think maybe things will change over the next 3 yrs. dont it for everyone these days ..damn...but my point is i dont need to look at someone else to need to get turned on then roll over next to my partner all ready to have sex i mean fuck if its gonna be that way go have sex with the damn tv or mag- and i'll just go look at someone in reality...grrrrrrrrrrr.