Could it be that I'm a fucktard in the literal sense? Yes I believe so. If anyone knows where I can get a copy of Foreplay for Dummies or Pleasure Sounds for Dummies, I'd love to know. It's just really embarassing when you get so far along into a relationship and realise you're the uber-virgin from hell. *sigh* Okay I'm done my rant. Any advice? lol. Maybe this is the wrong place to post my sex woes...lol.

Hmm. Try. If you fail, dust yourself off and try again.

Hmm. You could be a little more specific.

The problem's probably something to do with the assumption that there's a "right" way to do everything. There isn't.

And worst comes to worst, get your partner to teach you... that way... you'll know EXACTLY what they want.. hell.. get them to show you... it'll be fun... honest.

hmm, maybe the knowledge, that you're not the only one who has such problems, will make you feel a bit better?

i just went through all of that... it helped that he wasnt also a virgin and he kinda helped me along... also freind that arent virgins anymore help too... if you have one you should talk to him/her and make sure your partener isnt going to be a dick about you are still NEW!
good luck
*fellow newbie*