hey well hende the title i hate being me life is so fucked up at he momment
see im bi and i finally told my best friend last nite and he was kool with it but i did the stupid thing of asking him to tell my b/f (hencing im a gurl) and today wen i was talking to him he was really pissed at me for not telling him myself coz i no he wouldna ceared coz well he is himself but when i tryed to explain i tryed to tell him like 4 times he just said he didnt wanna hear it and he was sick of it all then we got into this big fite (ova the net which was really stupid) and i really still like him and dun wanna lose him but im confused bout everything and this chick i like and i cant handle it anymore i just want it all to end plz help

Rule one:

don't mope...moping amkes everyhting worse. Action no matter how ill advised and poorly thought out at least brings things to a settlment of some discription

Rule 2:

Speak with them. Tell them all (in person how you feel)

Rule 3:

If you want your other half to know somehting tell them face t face. It lessens the hurt they feel.

Rule 4:

Learn from your mistakes.

Rule 5:

How old are you? Not very old I imagine. Brace yourself for worse then this. If your life falls apart at this trivial little setback wait until the real crap comes flying at you.

Neon

Could I just ask something , if you are bi well shouldn't he have know that from the start of your relationship ?

You must make the first step and go talk to him. You must.

Get over your fears, little girl. You -should- have told him yourself. You failed. He lost trust in you now. It is up to you to restore that trust. You should not wait too long. Go to him as soon as you can gather the backbone to do so.

I must agree with Neon on this one. This is... a small pain compared to what life can throw.

you made a mistake,yes.if he doesnt accept your apolgy,fuck him.but hes not the only one to blame.a little snitch like that should not ruin your realtaionship.and if u like this girl,go for her.i myself am bi too,but i told by boyfriend from the stsrt.even tho i hadnt realized the fact until i persued a realationship with him.but if it doesnt wprk with your boyfriend,go for ther girl.goodluck.

This is gunna sound mean but ur b\f is an idiot....if he cant handle something like that u should b looking for better...if hes got a problem with bi people fuck him.....ur who u are and u shouldnt feel bad about it cuz ur b\f is a prick....i dont care how much u like him u shouldnt put up with that kinda shit from anyone...

peace

P.S. I think u should hook up with the chic hun


amy tee hee ur bi 2...ya sexy bitch

what he said.