I need help, i am obsessed with a guy at my school, he knows me, he talks to me, and he likes the way i look, but i cant seem to get anything out of him except for "you looked good today, what class are you going to next." Shit like that, I want to take it further, i need help.

Please give me advice, i would appreciate it very much.......

First, how old are you?

he's probably feeling the same way, set up a study date..go to the library or a place where you can sit and study together...do something with him...find out if he really likes you, you definitly have his interest.

give him head. or be more aggressive.. whichever...

Billy!



Anyway.........may as well ask him point blank......no sense wasting valuable time, right? Pass notes.


Wish I could say "it worked for me" but hey........*shrugs*

I'd do what Dynny suggested.

Aite first I am 15, yeah all 15 year olds act this way and it's normal, unfrotunately....well these are all good suggestions but he ain't in my group, ya know? He is more of the guy that i see and we say hi in school and thats it, he asked me todo somethin wit him the other night and asked me to call him and he told me he'd call me back and never did.....I dont fucking get it, and he still flirts in school, I think he only wants to hook up and that is obvious, but i am just curious if i can make him want anything more.......

oh yeah and what did Dynny say?

"Tell him that you're never gonna leave him,
tell him that you're always gonna love him,
tell him, tell him, tell him, tell him right now"

Huh.. sorry... I just recalled one song from Ally McBeal... Don't treat it seriously...

I'd in a subtle way sugest that you two do something. Like, going to a movie with a group of friends, or to the mall, or something like that. And, since you are only 15, maybe you could ask a friend to ask him. It's a lil lame, but at 15 we've all been there. And, if he just wants to hook up, tell him to take a hike. You could always renig on that in a few years, but for now, you are way to young for hooking up.

at 15 it's normal..really, it is!! Jordyns was a good suggestion.. as were some of the others..
and then theres the idiot remark(theres allways one)...

My suggestion, next time he says "you look good today", tell him you were planning on going shopping for some new clothes, and would he like to help you pick them out...

You will know right then if he's really interested, or just being polite..(those are the two ends of the spectrum... He may actually be somewheres in the middlin)

haha i know 15 year olds are shy as shit, but i dont ask friends for favors, been there done that, i like to tell how it is and to get the same out of the person i am into, i have told him and made my thoughts known to him, but he hesitates which is kind of weird cuz i know he has an interest. I dont play around and flirt and giggle and do what the other girls do, i am stright up, haha I dont ask my friend to talk to him cuz the only person being laughed at would be my ass. So i thank you all for advice and I hope they keep coming....
He is kind of not talking and he has done this before nd I am starting to get the hang of what he is doing, he probably just wants to fuck around, but i'll wait and see if he actually comes out with what he is feeling....
again thank you all very much for these good tips, and I hope they keep coming.

p.s. I really liked your suggestion darktiggr

I think a bit of subtlety goes a long way. Not needing to do the "giggling, flirting" thing, I do however think "bearing your soul" to him so to speak would more than likely send him running. Boys like to chase, you can be a bit more aggressive when you know for sure there's something happening. But simply "telling him how it is" I imagine will make him lose interest very quickly. Flirting has its merits, it suggests you could be interested but it also doesn't make you seem desperate.

Unless he's gay I doubt he'd jump at the chance of going clothes shopping. You could however tell him where you'll be shopping and ask him to meet you after your shopping extravaganza for a juice/shake/soda, whichever applies.

write notes in class. friendships start like that. then when you're in detention together for writing notes in class...well i can see a beautiful thing fluroushing

i don't know too many guys that wouldn't jump at the chance to dress the female of there inclinations in the clothes of there choosing..

Although it does occur...

it all comes down to clothes, huh? Well no need to give advice anymore, it is pointless, I dont get his attention anymore, i decided not to go out of my way to see him in halls and not do a bee-line straight for him in the locker bay, so I cooled out a little bit. However this did strike his attention which i knew it would because guys with egos cant stand a girl that does not give them the time of day......but he plays that game too, so we are like sitting ducks, so thank you for all your advice, i appreciate it a lot, very good pointers for the future.

alright, well it is all done now, i was looking for the wrong person and the one was right under my nose, i am with him now and it is great, i am happy with him. Thank you guys so much for giving a shit love to you all

Give him head...That always works yes!