Well my girl friend and i have been dating for some while now we have had problems but we seem to keep working them out, ne way latley she has gottin a bit i woudl say grumpy but im not sure, she liked this one guy awhile ago and didnt know if she had feelings for him or not. well they got into it and stopped talking for a bit, then i get news that he fucked her and they both say nothing happened. I really belive her but im afraid of losing her one friend suggested that i have no cofidents with in myself. I find that some what true but i dont know whats goin on. Like last night we where talkin and i was talkin to her and something brought up her looks and i was telling her how good she looked then she said that i wasnt the only one to tell her that, the other guy had also told her something about her looks but she wont tell me.....Please help me should i be concerned or am i just being to worried and i need to calm down, i need advice !!! I LOVE MY GIRL FRIEND TO DEATH AND I KNOW SHE LOVES ME!

she doesnt sound that caring if you give her a compliment and she turns round saying the guy who she apparently fucked said the exact same thing. sounds like she is bored with nothing better to do to me.

Sorry but you better face the truth that this girl certainly doesn't sound like she feels the same way about you...

And if she acts like she has something to hide then she has...

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and regardless of who slept with whom, this relationship smells like overness...

Never ever let anyone treat you as second best.

You're best rid of her.

Okay, what is the point in being with someone who likes someone else?

You know, there are many compilcations in a relationship but this does not sound like a relationship.

Why not tell her that you like someone else and see how she likes it?

Either that or just dump her ass. If she is going on about another guy and telling you that she likes him, its obvious that she has feelings for someone else and you are just... There. Tell her to get lost.

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anyhoo...dump her. if she doesn't care enough about you to fuck someone else, then you can do so much better

Well i found out last night that she doesnt like him or ne thing, but we talked about a problem about drugs and i guess she has been sneakin out to go smoke weed and her friend pressured her into taking some pills and shit. Please relize that last year i borke her heart and this year i feel different and i really do love her but i mean i feel im being ignored or something. I mean hell i have given her all my heart and she tell me that she loves me so but i dont know....the worse thing is yeah ill prolly get laughed at but im some what keeping this to myself abit...we had sex ( to me it was like making love, i dont know why but my heart was into it cause i love her ) But i didint want to i mean im 17 year old virgin, well somewhat not now but in a way still am, and she said that she feels guilty about me doing it cause she said she feels the blame of her....i dont know i just need some really good advice!
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uhm, she feels guilty for having sex? thats never a good sign...PS, learn how to spell

Oh wow! I'm haveing flash-backs from 4 years ago!

no its not having sex its the fact she pressured me into doing it!

How can you pressure a guy into having sex? Thats a little odd...

she had to pressure you into fucking her? that seems rather odd

Hahaha! I was thinking the same thing...

I mean a guy... Pressuring a chick in to a screw... Yeah I can see that... Its like... Rape or something... But a girl pressuring a guy... I mean... If its like.... (forgive my bluntness) not hard then it ain't going in really is it?

men are more prone to physical abuse (cause they're 'brutish') and women are more prone to dishing out mental abuse. in a really short, generalized way of saying things...

but Neena has a point. if ya got no 'point' buddy, you can't get it in and you just have to zip up your pants and walk away...

the world's big enough. you'll find another. young love is meant to fade. makes good poetry....sometimes..

Are you sure she loves you?

Young man, first thing's first. The next time your English teacher talks about punctuation and sentence structure, please pay attention. Now as far as your girlfriend is concerned, if she's; having reservations, experiementing with drugs, and feeling guilt about having sex, then my advice to you is that you cut the cord. You mentioned that you did something to hurt her a while back. All of this shit she's putting you through could be serving as a means of payback. It also be that you're trying to keepbfanning a flame that needs to die. Separating will hurt for a while but it's probably the best thing for both of you.

I likes the way you think d00d... Yeah Doktor Demo has a huge point....

And Quiet..... I honestly didn't know about the abuse thing but it does make sense I guess... Most guys are like "She's a chick, Im not gonna hit her back" or something... I hate that in guys... Women fight for equal rights as men then as soon as a girl hits a boy, they don't expect to be hit back... I find that shitty.

And like I said before... If it ain't hard... There ain't no way its going in.....

then again, i've had times where after having sex multiple times that day, i still managed to get it in when it was still all worm-like, hehehe...

That's lovely, dear, thank you for sharing.