man i dont know if i should move on or just keep on going after this one girl. i meen i really like here but she have a boy friend down it cal. and me and her are way up here in Oregon. LIKE 1000 MILES away from him and i think she's being ripped between me and him i dont know i was over at her house and i was rubbing her back and i was like are you still with that one guy. she said yeah so i was like do you want me to stop. in my head i was like no no no. she said hell no is he hear i dont think so. that maid my day it just me and her sitting on her bed god today was probaly the best day of my life you know what i mean. yeah when im around her im not always thinking about how i can get laid that sounds really low. but today was good so..yup talk to me you all tell me what you think

First of all, are you sure she wants the same thing out of the relationship as you do (I'm only asking because it isn't clear from your post) or does she look on you as more of a "good friend" ?

If it is relationshippy then don't resort to underhanded tactics, be the good reliable one then even if she does go back to him she'll turn to you if it goes bad.

I can answer one question out of that, Do you need her? No.

But do you want her yes, the question is does she want you?

the boys beat me to this one...she may be torn as you assumed...her boyfriend must mean something to her, but being not there she naturally wants some affections...just be sure you don't get hurt...nothing good ever comes from burning a candle at both ends...

what? you gont something against CANDLE BURNING NOW?


heh

Where in Oregon do you live?

im gonna take a wild stab and say PORTLAND

Wow how odd. I was reading that post and thought it was about me. You see, I was seeing this guy and we were in Oregon, not a town as glamorous as portland though, and I had a boyfriend on hold back home , but that is WI. I ended up back with Mike,the guy from Wi and the other, Jason, came back from oregon a week later to resume our relationship. It was the same deal with us, I still felt alot of feelings for Jason, it still felt right being in his arms, but when I was with Mike that felt right too. I was confused, how could I feel so strongly for the both of them at the same time? I had to do some serious soul searching. Who I chose isn't the point, I feel bad for stringing both of them along and feel they should of both left me to my lonely existence for toying with their hearts while trying to find my own. Maybe you do need her, and maybe she needs you too. What you need to figure out is if waiting for her to decide who she wants to be with is worth the longing and the pain..especially if she chooses to let you go, or worse, keeps dragging you along to suit her need.

Oh I feel sorry for that person...they go to Tigard HS...Lol...

Not as glamorous as Portland...that's just about every town other than Portland... I live in Milwaukie. This town has 2 bowling alleys...that's all there is to do.

Try Mukwonago, I go to milwaukee to find something to do!

Don't think you're thinking about the right city. Milwaukie is right outside of Portland.

oh i was thinking milwaukee wi my bad. no i was actually in stanfield,oregon. god that was a nightmare!

oo you live in mukwanago?! whoo you live real close to me