wha do you do when your family seems to hate you for it and you have nobody to run to and nowwhere to run because you're still a minor living at home? i just want to cry; my sister constantly calls me a dike and my mom just doesn't seem to understand how i feel. i know that she still loves me and would never kick me out of the house for being the way that i am, but its not like i can suddenly go straight again. and my extended family, well that's another issue unto itself. most of them are complete homophobes. it was so hard to come out to my immediate family (minus my dad; i don't live with him and he's one of the homophobes) what about the world? i feel so lost and alone right now and could really use some good advice. please nothing sarcastic, this is a very serious issue in my life right now.

The only thing I can give as an advice is hold on...I hope your close friends helps you through this...and you need to act as yourself...don't be afraid of anything or anyone.

right on to that edge. you should always stay your self. never let anyone change the kind of person that you are with your sexuallity. even though it is going to be a touch battle to fight. but if you stay with the people that understand and do care about you. then you shall be all right.

hmmmm yes girl, i know your problem as i am there myself... it is okay to hide your feelings for your family but you should always remain yourself..

everyone wears masks and hides their true identity now and then....youshould be comfortable with the situation you are in and the situation is that which you can create.....

be confident in what you are...it is not a bad thing

youre not gay, youre bi, which means you like boys just as much as girls, why dont you just date boys for a while? I mean i am into my woman but i see other hot women all day long i dont HAVE to date them to i just date my woman... its as easy as that. you dont stop being what you think you are, youre just busy doing the dating thing.

my parents don't even know I'm bi, I'm sure I would have the same problems as you though if they did find out.

*sighs with contentment* ooo all this bi chicas... *bliss*...

ok, enough fantasizing...

shy, i have a big issue with that whole change thing. people CHANGE... all the time. maybe not drastically, but you cant make a blanket statement like that since one of the main reasons many of the women i know get into bad relationships because they want to CHANGE someone.

wait... where was i going with this...

ok, dont read that silver...

my advice for you... smack your sister around if you dont want her calling you a dyke. tell her its none of her business unless she want some action herself (that should shut her up)...

to errant yeah i know people change all the time. but other people have said the samething that i did. so why don't you tell them that also. instead of just me here.

cause i read you first...

oh well you can read other people know. there going to tell her the samething to.

Being a bi to me is not a big deal...My theory in life is to do whatever makes you happy as long as you don't hurt anyone in the process. Life is so short..why not enjoy and have fun with it...but i can see the problem that you are having you are still young and living with your family...Just bare with them until you move out
If your family loves you eventually they will excpet who you are,
One was the first non-asian guy I date...you think My family was happy about that...takes time...that is my 2 cent

thank you kitty for coming into this thread when i asked you and a few other to do so

what? you're booking ahead of time for threads now?

well just incase this thread may not get alot of replies. i just thaught that i should help out was all. is that such a bad thing?

meh... too ambitious...

oh. well i'm thinking about something right know. you know since we are fucking up the bitch board. i wonder if we should fuck up the advise forum. but not in this thread though. i'm saying more like else where.

I don't think so girl..Advice thread is for people who really need advice..
Just have fun in the bitch thread

darn and i was getting my hopes up

Leave the advice forum alone..try other bitch boards instead...

yeah its right to leave the advice forum alone