wooo hooo - here you go girls, your advantage - you get to KNOW what he's thinking







taken from Cosmopolitan magazine, - July 2002, vol. 233 no. 1

When it comes to dating, mating and manhandling, any edge you can score is majorly beneficial.

One valuable coupling-up coup: the fact that you can rad any man's mind by just looking at him.

"Before developing speech, we communicated with our bodies," says David B. Givens, Ph.D, director for the center of nonverbal studies in Spokane, Washington. "We still subconciously use those instinctive responses to expres our feelings," so, if you can interpret a guys signals, it's like having a backstage pass to his psyche. Eureka! Read on to learn his most telling moves.... and how to respond with some undercover communication of your own.

*when your eyes meet, he tilts his head slightly to the side*


DUDE DECODER

The head tilt is a subconcious come-hither signal to any femme this guy has feelings for. "This is a gesture that a soft-spoken man may use when he's interested in a woman but needs her to make the first move,' says Givens. "He's showing his vulnerability in order to make himself more approachable and lure her in." So, if that man you've been making eyes with for the last hour gives you the head tilt, that's your cue to go in for the kill and introduce yourself or even send him a drink. If you're standing at your front door after a first date waiting for a kiss from a fella whose head is cocked, just lay one on him first!

more to come tomorrow

Dammit I feel so...shallow...now...I just realized that I use and abuse the head-tilt thing. Damn. I feel pathetic.

I`m going to have to remember these and use them later.

. . . An article from cosmo. has been posted on Drakforum . . .

*He's standing or sitting with his toes pointed toward each other*

DUDE DECODER

You're probably making this guy nervous... in a good way. According to Givins, it's a sign he's feeling a little unsure of himself. So if a boy at the bar is striking this pose, he's digging you but needs reassurance that the interest is mutual. "You'll seem less intimidating if you mirror his nervous gestures for a few minutes, then transition into a more comfortable stance." And when the man in question is an established beau, truned in toes say that he wants to discuss something big. Stay quiet to give him time to spill it. If he doesn't speak on his, carry on the conversation, he will soon.

*tilts head*

*smiles softly and blushes a bit*

Water....why bother

Men are this simple to explain.

We want to

Screw, eat, sleep in that order.

Men are REALLY that shallow

Neon

Did you know when a man pulls up his socks , subconciously he wants to be with you?

Did you know when someone touches thier ears when speaking to you they are lying?

Oooh. I have a *ton* of em. Fun, fun ,fun!

*gives up being a man in that case...*

what if you dont wear socks? i never wear them unless i wear shoes... and i barely ever wear shoes...