hey this is rayoflight this is a stupid problem i have that no one really wants to hear about but id like any help i can get. i gota bit of a problem with a relationship.you see i met this girl and she was perfect for me,she made me not afraid to open myself up she brought something out in me.i think what im tryin to say is she made me happy but on her part she was nervous as she had been in a relation ship just a while before and didnt want anything to serious,so i took it slow and we got together but then one day she just gave up on us she got scared and left.
i was perfect to her i never once tried to hurt her i forgave her for all the things she had done to me and she left!i never but my heart into anything to as much i did with her and now she is gone i dont know what to do,should i forget about her?or should i move on?i never really felt this alone,i really know now what people mean when they talk of that empty space.i dont think iu can forget about her she is all i can think about please someone just help me out a bit.

rayoflight

I think that you should move on because it sounds to me like you are angry with her for breaking up with you. How old are you and how long had you 2 been going out ? If it weren't very long well so be it, some things work, others do not. How do you know you were perfect for her ? You might not of been the person that she wanted to be with.

hey you thanks for the reply.i dont think im perfect for her but i do love her.you say forget but its not as easy as it sounds and im 16 by the way and her she is 18.have you ever had to forget about love if so please tell me how
thanks again

*rayoflight*
you say your alone?

You can't do anything if she really doesn't want to.
Have you tried talking to her?

I also say to you Rayoflight, move on, before you waste too many years trying to save something that just won't work. But please don't take any of our advice to heart, for only you can decide what is right for you. Good luck to you.

hey thanks again for your replies,edge you see for some reason i believe she does still feel for me and is scared!you say tlk to her but what shall i say?
i wrote her a poem id like if you checked it out i hope to give it to her to let her know how i feel.thanks again and id be interested in hearing your opinon on my poem
(for you) and (for you part two)
*rayoflight*

hey couny you speak very wise words you advice is a good side of this dilema but you must understand in love if their is still a chance you gota do all you can to make it work.thank you for your reply you shouold hear about my plan its in the poetry section in my poem (for you( and (for you part two) im really nevous so i need a lot of peoples advice on what to do!!look forwartd to hear in from you again

*rayoflight*

i agree, try and talk to her. what do you say? something stupid and corney like "how you been, what yeah up too, blah blah blah" and if you can get a convorsation started, ask for another try. if she turnes you down (this is where i get stuck in a delema of my own, the guy i'm with tried to get w/ me for about 6 months untill he finnally got me. and i'm soo glad he tried for so long). ok, if you love the girl, get her back. thats all i can say. good luck with this one and i hope everything works out for the best.

Your Morning Star

Dri

fallen rebel you are right but i have alienated myself from her i have turned her into this being of pureness i feel so undeserving of her and im find ing hard to over come thank you for your advice i think i will just tlk to her and ask for another chance no has put it that simple in a while thank you for your reply

*rayoflight*

well, tell me how things go. and i hope they work out for the best for you.

good lucks...

Your Morning Star

-Dri-

definatley give it a try, if you love her, its always worth a try, what can you lose, she is already gone, you only have something to gain.................however, keep in mind......if she has made up her mind, dont try to change it, it will never work........this is where you will have to move on.....i would say forget and move on, but this will not work, so dont forget, dont even try to forget, just move on........yes you will suffer for a while, but time will heal the wound, and you will cherish your times and memories..................hope this helped.

hey i will but it mite take time im pretty nervous i know all she can say is no but thats the bit that gets me!tlk to you soon

*rayoflight*