some people on her know me as my old name.hatedbrknchild.and my ex bf blazeoflglory19...we are good friends now that were broken up and were b4 as well.Well we broke up cuz I feel if were just friends then it will help both of us heal sooner to lead happy lives.That is just puting it bluntly.Anywho,It is hard it feels as i can not live without being WITH him.Anybody have any similar situations...please email me or reply to this thread.

xxaesxx@yahoo.com


thankies


-~Amy

Break ups hurt-especially if you really loved the person. However, they happen for good reasons-most of the time.

Time is the best healer. Just keep yourself busy-slowly the wound will scab over and not hurt as much. Hang out with good friends, cry, rent stupid movies-just do anything to keep your mind off the hurt.

I know it might seem ridiculous, but in time, the hurt goes away-at least that's been my experience.

It seems like the grieving will never end, but one day you'll wake up and not feel so badly-and each day will be a bit better. You'll have set backs, but over all, you will get through it.



Best wishes.

Ach! I feel for him...tossed into the black chasm of "just friends"! *grieves for his fallen comrade*

Its were like best friends and Its not like I wanna be friends forever...cuz its only been about 2-3 days and I am really missing him.We talk a lot...as normally when we go out.And we say the same things like that I love him or he is cute...and call him hunnie and all that happy nonsense.So pretty soon I plan getting back with matt.So the blade roden it isnt like im tossing him into my friend catagory....I treat all my friends wonderful and Im not being conceited but thats the only thing I like about myself. SO...eventuallyI plan on getting bacck with him because clot ...I can live without him.But Im gonna try real hard to be pals for a lil bit...would fwb be a bad idea?

*~Amy

no 'break up break up never never make up' for you two then?

nope.


but ima give it some time.I want to fianally be with someone on v-days though.


*cries*

pooey...
~*Amy

god loves little idiots...

doesnt he?

~*Amy



umm....yeah were back together now.
thanks for everyones replys I appreciate it!

[quote][i] SO...eventuallyI plan on getting bacck with him because clot ...I can live without him.But Im gonna try real hard to be pals for a lil bit...would fwb be a bad idea?

fwb is definitely a BAD idea. i've tried that one before and it got to the point where, if i saw him talking to another girl, i got REALLY jealous and suspicious of him fooling around with anyone else. i'm over the guy now but this is never a good idea to try.

if a person can not find happiness with themselves, they will always need another person to fill that void...figure out who you are instead of using relationships to define yourself...it doesn't make the pain any less easy, the turmoil any more pleasant, but only time and learning from the mistakes rather than repeating them is the only cure for a stable relationship.

I have trimmed this thread, and all the posts unrelated to the topic on ADVICE will now be moved to the Bitch Forum. Also from now on, if you want a simple chatty thread, please people, make one in Friendship.

bitchy...you dont know me or my sister LILITH...you thought when i was hospitalized at rcpc(phsyc.ward)..it was a lie...not every one is a fuckin retard to want unneccicary attentention....think what you want.I honestly done give a fuck

sorry i cant spell...neccecarily*there we go,i think?


and why dont you just go ask crypt....he talked to me on the phone my 2nd night at rcpc...



ok people...IM HOME-AMYS HOME & HAPPY

Amy, chill out, hun.... for real

awww you called me "hun"....hee. Hee

Breath, breath...Count to 10 then hit ur head off the way or punch it...hehe...Works for me everytime...But hell...look at me..Im just a fucked up crazy bitch.

lol..hit ur head off the way...lol...I ment wall...whatever i cant spell and i should really look at what i type..Im just a speed demon when i type...teehehe! Ok im leaving now...

*Walks away and trips over my damn foot* (hehe i did that today in school and people looked at me like i was dumb... )

Next time you trip in school and people look at your like your dumb...say something freeky that will foncuse em'.Like...."i like mice"...i dunno~Im retarded...lol.





luff ya~

I scream "I fuck ducks"...all the time..I dunno y..well i do...Its something me and Mike do..Yes u r retarded...but hell so am i...So its all good! Luff ya 2!

Shell~


ya i missed ya the other day 2nd day i was back from rcpc and when i was there I grew this facination for ducks ...so the other day when i missed you I had my homie Nicole scream "I fuck ducks!"...heheh i missed the shellster ...


ya my friend kelly at rcpc loves pigs and i love ducks so there going to associate in specific "activities" and make a puck

and it has some weird feaqtures(me and kelly came ^ w/em)









-*~Amy~*-