every one has their own rules to dating or at least a decent idea of what is or isn't acceptable, so lets hear what yours are. a few of mine are:


1) if you expect me to buy you a beer just 'cause we're talking, you'll never see one. if i feel like dropping cash on you i will, but girls that say 'well, aren't you going to buy me a beer?' will see the shiny side of my middle finger.

2) if in the first 10 minutes you mention your ex-boyfriend or that you own any horses... late.

3) if there's no sex in the first three dates, there are no more dates.

4) internet dating is a joke.

5) i don't date sisters or ex-girlfriends of my friends.

6) no long distance relationships that are further than 300 miles.

7) if you're 'allergic' to condoms or they just don't feel right, sorry, but i'm not into kids or diseases.

8) i love eating pussy, you better love sucking dick.

hahahahaha........

I don't like the whole dating/mating ritual you have over there.

I decide I like someone, I let them know and then if they like me too they ask me out, which means we're an 'item'. No multiple dating, no long period of uncertainty where you're 'just seeing each other'.

Not everyone over here dates

I have never ever gone out on a date myself........ i usually just met someone and started being "an item" as you put it...... dating just seemed a waste of time to me.... hehe...

I like you

I suppose it's universal there are going to be princesses who expect guys to bend over backwards to take them out, bring them flowers etc.
It's like that whole prom kerfuffle. Erlack. Just throw on a pair of jeans and be done with it!

Harsh, I know someone who is allergic to latex.

Anywho...no rules that I know I have, just do what I do with all my other friends. But it also includes making out and sex. Wait a tick...

shower!

'just seeing each other' is the best part about multiple dating. you can keep cycling partners through until you find one that fits what ever criteria you have. of course, if your only criteria is a heartbeat, then you probably don't need to do much dating.

But in my case I never go out with strangers, only people I've known for a while, usually who I am friendly with already so there's not a long period of getting to know each other.

you've never just met someone at a party/bar/club and exchanged phone numbers?

Nope. I'm pretty shy, and I tend to melt into the background when I'm out with friends.

the same... which is probably why i constantly find myself on the friend ladder.

the friend ladder sucks though 'cause it only has so many rungs. i prefer the elevator where people get on and off at each floor.

At least friends know what they're getting into, and to be honest I don't have any straight male friends who either like me more or I like them.

sounds like you need to stop blending into the background and start talking to new guys.

You're probably right. Maybe in the summer, I always seem to meet guys in the summer. Possibly because I wear fewer clothes.

I forgot, I did meet a guy at a party once (I was oh so very drunk) and we dated for a bit, but he was a big Christian and didn't believe in sex before marriage and had serious issues that I really wasn't prepared to deal with.

Hehehe...no sex before marriage...that's always good for a giggle in this day and age.

I know, it's ridiculous.