That's not quite what I mean. I have enough confidence to know I could have it often if I tried and could get out more.
My point is: Why would I want to develope a desire for it when I have no problem going without? Is it really worth it? Look how the people who go without for a while whine about it when they are not getting it. Why complicate things?

There is a point when it peaks for some reason(probably biological) then starts to drain off..

After it starts to drain off, you no longer get the urges near as often...
And for some reason, start to see things more clearly

Nah, shagging's great, no substitute.

well, there is that......... But i'm not looking for that unless it is offered by someone that i would feel right about shagging... I believe your on that short list of mine...

Is it a shortlist? Or a long list of short people?

short list.. at this time the list is 8 females long... and 7 of them live in other states or countries...

That's a bitch. There's only 2 guys here I'd like to do, but they won't have anything to do with me; all the others are at a distance.

LOL the one here i won't approach... Guess i need to start saving my cion...

hum... monday night. my ex came by and im regretting it horribly.

Ah dumb move. Dumb dumb move. Never go the ex route, it's bad news.

edited out. personal life should stay personal (mine).

it was valentines, i was a little out of it, and she was very assertive...

Still.

i know... im not proud of it... but i felt it was on topic. shit.

Have some control man!
I know what women are like, I am one, but there's always the 'no' word.

Ah well, I shall chastise no more. We've all been there, just don't do it again.

yes, there is... i just found myself unwilling to say it. i wanted what she was offering, because it's been quite some time since what she was offering was anywhere in my vicinity.

unfortunately, im going to have to deal with the consequences.

What are the consequences?

He's going to castrate himself.

Or masturbate his problems away.