Three ways....
Serious DiscussionDiscuss Three ways.... in the Discussions forums; i was wondering what peoples opinion were on three way relationships, not just a three-some, an actuall relationship with three people all knowing and ok with it, i myself ...
i was wondering what peoples opinion were on three way relationships, not just a three-some, an actuall relationship with three people all knowing and ok with it, i myself dont think its a good idea, i say the more people worse and harder it gets, its almost impossiable to work out one of those for a ong period of time...lety me hear your opinions on it.....
"He lives the poetry he cannot write. The others write the poetry they dare not realise"
"He was wearing his yellow tie, i did'nt even wear a tie to work anymore..."
i was in one myself....and ended up so hurt i wentnuts....really...i would shake and rock back and forth..cryble..mumble incoherently and slice and dice myself in the bathtub till the water was red...it was horrific....*sighs andtrys not to cry* it didnt help that he was abusive and she was prettier than me....they would have sex next to me while they thought i was asleep...and a lot of other thing*starts shakeing*...i.....*sighs*
*quiet voice*nevermind
"Stuborn, Snarley Males!" ~Janelle Angiline black jewel trilogy
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ive never been in something like that, but i have felt like that, when i hold everything that bothers me , inside and i just make it seem like im ok, but when it comes out, its terriable, i cry, and sit and my mind is totally confused i dont know if i should say something, cry more, or grab the knife, it really sucks, i use to write but i cant seem to put anything on paper anymore, it really sucks when you have no way to let it all out......now i usaully juxt get away from everything i know and get drunk or something like that, that works for about 2-3 weeks.....
"He lives the poetry he cannot write. The others write the poetry they dare not realise"
"He was wearing his yellow tie, i did'nt even wear a tie to work anymore..."
i used to write....i cant anymore..i cant get my mind togeather...like now...i really feel like that now...when i broke up with them and moved out....(i was 17 and moved onto the streets just to get away) i left stuff there....and i just got some of it back...im 20 now...and looking at that stuff....the pictures...*voice breaks away*
"Stuborn, Snarley Males!" ~Janelle Angiline black jewel trilogy
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yea ophelia same here now... and then in a way... see... i did it for him... even tho he was an abusive bastard... acctually that was why...if i didnt go along... i was gunna get the shit beat out of me...
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No, it IS stupid. Any non-monogomous new-age open-ended neorelationship that these kids are doing nowadays, ESPECIALLY polyamory is fucking dumb. Could set ourselves up to be hurt JUST a little more? Fuck, that shit, like the whole "Friends with benefits" jagoff deal is usually what happens when one of the two in the involvment is lying to themselves. They're all "Oh yeah, sure, i'm fine with you screwing other people!" Until it actually happens. Then they're doubly boned because not only are they hurt, it's their own damn fault for setting themselves up for it in the first place.
Same with polyamory. Don't want to see your man/woman fucking another man/woman? DON'T LET HIM/HER BRING SOMEONE ELSE INTO THE RELATIONSHIP! Even if there's a lot of bisexuality involved and all three can intermingle with one another, there's going to be an imbalance that is going to hurt someone in the long run.
Sometimes i swear it's as though some people tie their shoelaces together for the sole purpose of tripping and skinning their knee so they can cry about it. Fucking hell...
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Originally posted by Alliance Of Concerned Men No, it IS stupid. Any non-monogomous new-age open-ended neorelationship that these kids are doing nowadays, ESPECIALLY polyamory is fucking dumb. Could set ourselves up to be hurt JUST a little more? Fuck, that shit, like the whole "Friends with benefits" jagoff deal is usually what happens when one of the two in the involvment is lying to themselves. They're all "Oh yeah, sure, i'm fine with you screwing other people!" Until it actually happens. Then they're doubly boned because not only are they hurt, it's their own damn fault for setting themselves up for it in the first place.
Same with polyamory. Don't want to see your man/woman fucking another man/woman? DON'T LET HIM/HER BRING SOMEONE ELSE INTO THE RELATIONSHIP! Even if there's a lot of bisexuality involved and all three can intermingle with one another, there's going to be an imbalance that is going to hurt someone in the long run.
Sometimes i swear it's as though some people tie their shoelaces together for the sole purpose of tripping and skinning their knee so they can cry about it. Fucking hell...
i completely agree....u should be with one person and one person only at a time...i am all the way for monogamy.
For me the question is not whether its ok but is it ok for you, there are people who can cope with a three way relationship but most people can't, if you are in a relationship with someone and they want to see someone else, you don't have to go along with it, in fact you must not go along with it if it makes you unhappy. If you tell your partner that you don't want a three way and they love you then they should try to understand. But if they don't try and don't care or maybe do it anyway then they don't love you and you have to face up to that and get away from them because they will probably torture you and think nothing of it. If you walk away it will hurt like hell and you might cry for weeks but if you stay they will destroy you and you will never be the same and you may never stop crying inside.
I was in a relationship with a women who was also seeing ... hrrmmm let me see.. I think six other guys... I was never sure as we would often avoid the subject... I was never jealous... rather I was happy for the time we spent together and very happy for those moments we had alone.... it did not work out... but most relationships like that do not... I knew that... so knowing it I spent my time with her and cherished it... she finally became monogamous with an old BF from long ago...
DO NOT go into any sort of relationship like that thinking that it will last... jealousy will always strike... whether it be you or another who is a component of the relationship.... if you do... realize and acknowledge this.... transient relationships are good if ye know that they are transient... if not avoid them..
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