Do you think after we die or they die we will ever see them again? Are they gone forever? Even if there is a heaven what if we go to hell or they do and we go to the opposite place? What if we cannot find them? What if there is no life after death and we never see them again? What do you guys think?

The thought scares me I hope I see them again.

if this makes you feel any better, i contacted a spirit with my witchboard and asked(it was a 'him') if he was alone because he's dead(obviously) and he told me that he was with his family and that there is an afterlife. (i hope that's true!) if i were you, i wouldn't worry too much about your loved ones after you die. if what he said was correct, you'll never be a lonely, wandering spirit.

Love is a chemical reaction that occurs within the body. Therefore, if you are dead, you do not have the physical body necessary to have the chemical reaction. This means love can not exist. This also means other emotions are impossible. Now if you want to talk about a mental reality which we generate upon death to try and ease ourselves into that darkness then I might speak with you about how you could actually love the false people within it...but that doesn't matter.

i think it depends on the belief...i believe that there are energies that will always be drawn together, no matter what state of being they are in..i guess it kind of coincides with my husbands concept(based on cayce)that when people die they can choose to come back, and choose what they want to return as...i don't believe that...while his reasoning would explain a lot of stuff, i have my own explanations...but it all comes down to what you believe...that's what you'll be thinking when you die, once your dead...it really doesn't matter what you believe because the actuality is not known by anyone...believe what will bring you happiness, once a person is happy, the world and all it's avenues falls into place within your realm of influence, and death will not be a concern for you.

you have some pretty interesting questions. though i haven't thought of anything like that before. so know you got me thinking about it

but i don't know what to think about death. even since i haven't maid my reach yet. i know that when we die we live on in a spirit world. but i'm not to sure with this hole heaven and hell thing. like a part of me knows that thoughs places are there and another part of me doesn't. life is a mistery and hard to figure out at times.

I believe you can.

if so how could i?

Since I believe that ALL living things possess a life force that continues on after death, then all living things will end up on the "Other Side". I expect to find plants, animals ( especially my beloved pets ) and people, when I get there. Once you pass over you can wait for your loved ones still living to join you, or you can get about doing "bigger and better things". There is no Heaven or Hell.......we all end up at the same destination.

Probably the people who have wronged others will create their own hell due to guilt etc..

that makes sense...kind of like with karma, you pay for your wrongs in the next life creating your own personalized little hell. [(in baby voice)aww, look at the little hell! its so cute!]

sorry, i got a little carried away...

i think that once someone is gone, they're gone. which is why i appreciate them why they're still here instead of falling into the illusion that there is a fluffy little fairytale world waiting for me when i die. it's reality at it's finest.