Jordyn, don't change your views of Chaos and Order, think of them in the same analogies you already use.
Pick something from your life, like the stream thing, still see Chaos and Order whare you saw them before but think of Order as repeatability and Chaos as change.
Don't think of Chaos as random and destructive, think of it as the opposite of Order.
Order is everything in it's place, the stream flowing down the hill, staying inside it's banks all the time.
Chaos is one spring where the stream overflows and carries an acorn out onto it's flood plain where it finds fertile soil and grows into a huge oak tree.
Chaos made the Oak tree, if Chaos hadn't interceeded the oak tree wouldn't be there and all the animals that live in it's shadow wouldn't be there either.
Chaos is creation, growth, life.
If it wasn't for chaos, those two little amino acids that combined and created the first protein wouldn't have bumped into each other, they would have swirled around the primordial soup in an orderly fashion and we wouldn't be here having this discussion.
