i think sex is secondary in a relationship and emotions are key...but maybe thats just cause none of my partners have been as good at it as me...lalala

I think that every couple has to determine how important sex/attraction/emotional whatnot is to them. For some people, like me, sex isn't a big deal. They can have a happy, healthy relationship without needing to be too terribly attracted to one another because they like each other so gosh darned much. For other people-- like my sister-- to be in a sexually unfulfilling relationship is worse than death. The 'test drive' will determine if the relationship can progress.

I miss my V card.

werd, chica nocturn

i'm sorry.

you've obviously never had that really good curl-your-toes, head tingling, body-rush kind of sex.

that's the good stuff

i did with one guy...of course that was my first that kinda carried on after a few years, i guess we just knew each other well

coincidently, that was the one guy i didn't technically date...more of a monogamous friendship...hard to explain

that's probably why you think sex is no big deal too. you've only had one partner that you had great sex with.

i think its more of a personal morality, and less things to reminisce on. i guess im just a hopeless idealist, again in my land of pretty pony princesses and butt-gnomes with sheleleighs

ok, fruit basket.

ArSiNiK is right, again. And I'm off in Hexsass' world of pretty pony princesses and idealism. My dreams have been squished a little, but I'm still hopeful. Though right now I'm ready to say fuck idealism and be all over the first sane, pleasant male individual who shows interest. Except I've never been able to find one. Well, one, but . . . . . he's far away and probably better off without me, anyway.