It really is..it's one of those things that come & go. Sure, many know, but what of those who expect it to last? Is it not just the love of being in love, flirting & having fun, passion & not love. Love is not just for people..it can be for anything..but it must be receptive..you have to get something out of it, for true love always gives back (whether it be from a person or pleasure).
Like I say, life has no promises, no matter how much you want it.

Love is not an answer to everything..it is not the end of everything..it is just part of a journey..when it ends, it is change..for a new love. Every end is a beginning of something new.

Yeah it's ok, but only if you handle it right and don't totally trash the other persons life in the process.

hOW IS IT OK TO FALL OUT OF LOVE- THATS BULLSHIT!
IF YOU FALL OUT OF LOVE, THEN YOU WEREN'T EVER REALLY IN LOVE IN THE FIRST PLACE.

you're basically saying you can only love one person/thing? I disagree

there's NO shame in moving on..that's a part of life, like it or not.
Some take love as nothing more than fun..temporary. What peopl call true love is something you GROW into (passion)..it too changes, but it lasts the rest of your life or at least a very long time.

Plant the seeds of your dead flower & it shall grow again

I'm sorry, but I have no dead flowers. I keep them alive.

Unfortunately, it's the ones who believe in lasting love that get hurt more often.

Heh true. Fairytales like that can come true but dont believe that they MUST.

delusions and hope are what keep people going though...

...love is an illusion that seems to be there ....but then slowly fades to sad reality....

hhmmm...was it really there...as I thought.....or was it just my imagination?!.....

And without my idealistic delusions I'd have died on several occasions.

" Have you ever been in love?
Horrible isn`t it?
It makes you so vulnerable. It opens your chest and it opens your heart and means that someone can get inside you and mess you up. You build up all these defences. You build up all this whole armor, for years, so thet nothing can hurt you, then one stupid person, no different from any other stupid person wanders into your stupid life...YOu give them a piece of you. They dont ask for it. They do something dumb one day like kiss you, or smile at you, and your life isn`t your own anymore. Love takes hostages. It gets inside you. It eats you out and leaves you crying in the darkness, so a simple phrase like "Maybe we should just be friend." or "How perceptive" turns into a glass splinter working its way into your heart.

It hurts. Not just in the imagination. Not just in the mind. Its a soul hurt, a body hurt, a real gets-inside-you-and-rips-you-appart pain. Nothing should be able to do that. Especially not love.

I hate love."

-Rose Walker-

(The kindly ones. Part 9, pp. 7-8 panesl 4-9. By neil Gaiman.)

So as much as I long for love, I fear it.

I do not believe in anything lasting for ever. So that is not a Question. What I fear is that I might find a person, and wish, hope, and long for him to stay with me for ever.

I havent experienced any terrible break, not rally on my behalf. Even though it has not been pleasant in the end. I have never dared to stay long enough, so I have runned away.



But there is hope for everyone, dont you think.

I dont really hate love. I just hate the fear it brings me. Im scared of ending up being adicted to someone, being in need of someone, that might end up not being there anymore.

do you have a thing for CA? because you're acting like you wanna hide it...everything is bullshit to ya!!!

And the sense of prevailing weakness to love... I'm one who demands complete control of himself... yet love is the one emotion I am incapable of controlling... I feel weak, although addicted...

www.somethingawful.com

And yes that does have a personal conotation for me.

how cute. Lol

love is a drug..it feels good 'til it wears off

Time... is ever moving. As a result, our personal realities, and the physical realities around us change and alter. We expand, we grow... we often do not grow together...

Often two people will grow together, and time does not just stop, to please them... it will continue moving, and they will grow apart.

It's called evolution... it does not mean that you never loved the person.

Xxx-SIN-xxX

I wish i could fall out fo lve but i don't seem to be able to.