Flirting - To behave amourlsy without serious intent...to show casual or superficial interest...........................

Which means not to be taken seriously. While amoursly means lovingly. While it also means being a tease.

Flirting can cause other things to happen. One person might take your flirting seriously, and the other person might not take it seriously. Depending on who it is that they are flirting with. Eventhough it is hard not to flirt with someone in the first place, unless if you have alot of will power to take your self away from that kind of action. Cause you might end up getting hurt if you take "flirting" in a serious kind of a way.

A girl would be flirting with a guy, and once when he will take this kind of action seriously, then he would persue it and ask her out. While she will come out and say "Oh i'm just flirting with you and I wasn't taking it seriously ." So the guy ends up getting hurt by it. He wouldn't be getting hurt if he didn't take her flirting, too fucking seriously.

Then let me come out and ask you. Why flirt with someone if you are not carefull with your actions? If you don't want anything to happen with someone else? Then that is easy don't flirt at all. But like I have said, it is seriously hard not to flirt with someone.

Another action would be is sitting in a room with a bounch of people. Everyone is flirting with everyone else, but there is one person in the room, which no one is flirting with. So that one person would get up and leave the room. Cause that person would feel left out and hurt by what is going on with everyone in the room. If everyone is flirting with everyone else. Don't leave anyone out.......

But everyone is always going to flirt with everyone else no matter what. Like I flirt with some people on here, and it depends on who it is though. Some people I might take it serious when it comes to flirting, and with other people I wouldn't be so serious about it.

Its hard to draw your self away from flirting though. Like I have said before it takes alot of will power NOT to flirt or to be caught up in it. But its nice to play around without having emotions involved in it. But sometimes that is easy not to have your emotions fucked with depending on the person who is doing the flirting.

What do you think about all of this? I'm thinking alot as I always think way too much.

But its weird though how people would take it seirously and some won't. Wonder why that seriously happens? While not saying depending on the person your flirting with. I want a real answer behind that...

My own post is making me think.

I dont understand this concept all too well myself. IN person, I don't flirt with anyone.I actually stray away from the majority of people.If I do somehow flirt, its like...I want to get to know that person.I think that person is desirable,and I want to express it to this person but I want to keep it at a minimum because I know that I dont have time for anything serious.

Which means that you want to keep things at a basic level... While still having a chance on getting to know that person. Sounds like you are a person who is very carefull on what they do when "flirting" gets involved.

Flirting? Hm..
I think it's easier to only flirt with people you're slightly interested in. If you're too serious (and they arent) then you'll get hurt. If you're not serious at all (and they are) then you'll hurt them. So you have to balance out the playful/seriousness.
That's just my opinion, but I find it works.

i'm in the same boat as spacey here.

flirting is for fun and if the other person takes it to seriousley then i think it's their own fault.......

I think flirting is just a fun way of getting to know someone...... so....yeah.

true

Yeah and see. Everyone has different ways to talk about the word "flirting" here. There is so much to talk about once when this word takes place hehehe.

Yes exactly!

Well of course someone else in the boat, is bound to take it seriously. But like you said if they take it seriously it is there own fault. But its not there fault all together. The who is doing the flirting can be a fault to this problem as well.

but when i flirt I do it in a manner that they realy can't take it to seriousley.....

Explain to me about your manner though. Since i'm over here being curious about it and all.

i'll sometimes brush imginary dirt of her shoulder as well as ocasionly pushing the hair out of her eyes while stating that i did it so i could stare at her bueatiful eyes

Not bad on with the way you flirt though.

howz about you?

flirting? *gets all bashful*
not from me *giggles* but it is nice to recieve once in a while, but only when it is from someone you like... and stuff lol

*leaves thread*

Well since i'm not a social person anymore. I'm by my self now. Which would tell you that I don't flirt in person, But I do however flirt with people online.

Hahaha