I having quite the moral dilema... me and this one girl have been friends for years, we are really close and there has always been sexuall tension between us and even a few nights that things went a little farther than the "friend" zone. well, she hooked up with this guy recently (3 months ago) and even tho they are in a seriouse relationship we continue to fuck on the side... now understand we were always just friends with benefits, nothing serious. I didnt think anything of it at first, just two consenting adults having adult fun. but now I am having doubts as to whether what I am doing is right or not. I mean, it is her choice to cheat on him or not and Im glad shes doing it with me other than some other fuckhead. should I feel bad, should I even care... its sex and nothing more. but every time I tell myself that I just think about how much I want her. damn it.... has anyone else been in this situation? a little help would be nice.

I have been in a similar situation. My sexual feelings,and all that tension clouded up my judgement of right and wrong. The sexual encounters start to become a drug,and you can't really stop,you dont want to.Your caught up in a web,devoid of logical thinking. I would'ent try to start a relationship with her,after all,the way you got her,could very well be the way you lose her.If it is nothing more than sex,you have two ways to go.You can stop out of the plight you feel for her BF,or you can continue and see where it takes you.

In this situation, I was already too caught up to stop.I rarely thought of the other guy's feelings.But when things went sour,it opens an occasional window,where you start thinking clearly again.In that small gap, I knew what I was doing was wrong. It took me a while to gradually give the sex up,but it worked. I feel bad for what I did,but by not doing it anymore, I have learned.Maybe it will work out for you,in this manner.

There are alot of girls and possibilites out there.Search for what you want,Don't settle for what you can get.But then again,that saying may not apply to you.

yes i have but due to certian on lookers at work i can't divuldge in information on that now. but i have always felt that untill they get up in front of church and say i do. than they are free game. so she has a boyfriend, that just means that she wants somebody to be there for her emotionaly. but if she is still fucking you then he must not be doing something right. get your ass where you can and fuck what every body else thinks.

I would put some bible shmuck here but you dont care, so; take this. I would say that you have to follow your morals or tell the other guy what is going on, some people wouldnt care, most do. It matters, do you want a relationship like serously with this girl? Or do you just want to be friends and "sex"? That would influence what you do, I mean, if you want to do that there is no moral delema for YOU to have sex with her, but when you add another person to the equasions you are troubled. Is this guy actully your friend, or just some guy she hooked up with as you said.
I cannot say for sure, but I would consult whatever religeon you belong to, if you hapend to be an atheist, just keep doing it.
I would just tell her to tell the guy, but thats just me.

as I said, its quite the situation.... it all depends on which head is thinking for me at the time.

When I read this, my first impression was that you really don't give a fuck about the other guy. You want her for yourself, and her being with this other guy is a threat to you.

This is true. In the course of the temptation from the girl I was Sleeping with, I dont think I ever turned her down when she was right there with me in person.When the girl is too close,its already too late,shes already got you.If you want to turn back from all this,act when you are away from her.So that,shes not there to tempt you further. If you just dont care about all this and want her for yourself,just keep in mind, "The way you got here may be the way you lose her".

but you have to think about her current BF, how would you feel if you were in his situation would you want to know of not??

awe, i love this shit.....okay, uh, well i fucked my ex-girlfriend (love of my life) who was at the time my bestfriends girlfriend.....yeah, that went real well! needless to say, i see neither of them anymore nor care too....fucking cunts......also, an ex of mine fucked at least four other guys behind my back (though i knew) and she also lost a baby that wasn't mine.....i didn't care though.....call it love, call it lust, call it apathy, but i didn't care............i only cheated on one gf though........but what it all boils down too is irrational behavior......it's good that you're questioning yourself, but always remember this golden rule.....fuck everyone else, only care for yourself, tomorrow is another day......

thank you sixxx.... best advice so far

in fact hes at work and im going to go pound her down right now.... oh yeah.

IF it isnt agenst your moral code, I cant stop you, bang away.

that was fun.

doing a mates bird is out of order, no exceptions.

Weee... there IS an advice board, y'know.

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you sure talk allot about morals and bible shit to be banging another man's woman. if you really belived the shit you say then you would have never started this thread. i think you are a hipocrite ( can't spell) who likes to put up a hollier than thou front. you obviously don't care. so have fun and quit acting like you care. :jerk: