i just found out one of my old friends committed suicide on wed. we havent talked in around 2 years but i just keep thinking about how we were always together. i dont know really how to cope with death, i have never really had to. im not even sure if i should go to the funeral. its not like we were close anymore or anything and it would be my first funeral. i didnt realize how much i missed being a friend with him until now.

do you think i should go to the funeral or i have no right to be there? i am not sure what to do.

*gives my amby a big hug*
im sorry to hear this:(

i think its important to go to funerals..a final goodbye,but if you really dont feel right going,then dont,but you might regret the not going later on..

You have a right to be there but only if you want to.I doubt I would go myself, its not something that would be helpful for me, if you think differently then you should go.

Originally posted by msibrat
i just found out one of my old friends committed suicide on wed. we havent talked in around 2 years but i just keep thinking about how we were always together. i dont know really how to cope with death, i have never really had to. im not even sure if i should go to the funeral. its not like we were close anymore or anything and it would be my first funeral. i didnt realize how much i missed being a friend with him until now.

do you think i should go to the funeral or i have no right to be there? i am not sure what to do.


well if you don't feel like going... then you don't have to go... remember no one is forcing you... i hope that everything turns out ok with for you at the end....

i did go in the end and i do not regret it at all
thank you for helping...

cool i'm glad that you went... that everything has went well...

how neat was the body? did the mortician do a good job? or were the slashes still visible? or did they od on something? like clorax? clora when injected melts you from the inside out and combines you to whatever surface you are laying on... very gooey